The biggest city in northern Thailand is not just known for its bustling day life and wonderful sights. From erotic massage parlors to nightclubs and beer bars, there are plenty of options for those who want to explore during their sex travel in Chiang Mai. But you might wonder which place you should visit first. Are nightclubs the best places to find hot chicks here? Can you date a girl online and expect some late-night tugging under the sheets?
Lucky for you, I have the answers. I gathered all the information from my sex vacation to Chiang Mai so you don’t wander aimlessly. For the ultimate sex holiday experience in this part of Thailand, continue reading this Chiang Mai sex guide to uncover where to find girls for sex in the city.
Chiang Mai Sex Tourism and Nightlife – Introduction
The most important spot that makes Chiang Mai’s sex tourism so desirable to me is massage parlors. There are plenty of places where you can get a handjob or blowjob, body-to-body massage, or the full, happy service.
Add to this the vibrant nightlife, and you’ve got yourself a great place where singles can mingle. From 9 pm to early in the morning, red-light districts like Loi Kroh Road are bustling with bars, clubs, and even restaurants, attracting foreigners and their companions for an unforgettable night.
Plus, the famous tuk-tuk services offer city tours during the night so you can experience Chiang Mai after sunset.
All of this has made Chiang Mai’s sex tourism bloom in recent years. Although it’s not entirely legal, since it helps the economy, sex in Chiang Mai has become one of the must-experience things.
About Chiang Mai Girls and Their Hookup Culture
The girls in Chiang Mai are very pretty, young-looking, and feminine. These Northern Thai girls have lighter skin, dark hair, and captivating eyes. What I love most about them is that regular Chiang Mai girls might seem shy at first, but once you get to know them, they love to party.
On the other side, horny Chiang Mai girls are constantly looking for foreigners to hang out with and are not afraid to show you a good time behind closed doors. If you want to get laid with these hot girls, you must be kind and gentle. Even when you approach the street hookers, don’t ask them directly about their sex price; instead, chat them up and ask kindly after a few minutes.
Since there are plenty of colleges around, many young, gorgeous Thai girls are looking for a foreign vacation fling. Although hardworking and put their studies first, these normal girls like to let loose on the weekend.
Where to Pickup Girls for Getting Laid in Chiang Mai?
Here are the top places to find girls for sex in Chiang Mai; let’s go through them individually.
1. Online Dating Sites
Dating sites are my go-to when I’m in the mood to hook up with a Thai hottie. The whole thing is quick and easy. Simply make a profile and start chatting.
While many Thai dating sites deserve your attention, I’ve found a couple with the most users and the best selection—sugar babies, ladyboys, and you name it:
Thai Friendly connects you with ladies all over Thailand, including Chiang Mai. I personally find it useful for casual dating and quick hookups since there are over a million people on the site. Unlike some other dating sites, you can send as many messages as you want and search for girls of your ideal height, weight, and overall looks.
Checkout our Thai Friendly review article to know more about the site.
This dating service is perfect for experimenting and spicing up your sex life by connecting with girls, ladyboys, and even couples. It’s also super easy to arrange sex dates with online Thai girls—just text them and let them know your intentions.
Dating girls in Chiang Mai is easier with Thai Kisses. I use this site all the time to find and meet with girls for quick sex. You can search for girls by their looks and age and find the ideal match for you. A lot of these girls have decent rates for sex, so you shouldn’t have trouble setting up a date.
I like to use this site for dating in Chiang Mai since you can see who’s interested in you and message them right away. Users usually say whether they’re interested in a relationship or casual hookups on their profile, which makes the whole thing more accessible. So why are you waiting? Just go to the website and start matching with Thai ladies right away.
To see more sites like these, check out my entire list of the best dating sites in Thailand.
2. Erotic Massage Parlors
Erotic massage parlors are another perfect place to loosen up and get laid. With a relaxing ambiance, candlelit rooms, and steaming jacuzzis, you can get a sensual massage and then have sex with the masseuses.
Along with that, you can get a happy-ending and soapy massage experience from the erotic massage parlors. For the soapy massage, the girl uses soapy water to glide up and down your body, but for a happy-ending massage, you can get a Hand job or Blow job. Loi Kroh Road and Sridonchai Road are the areas with the most erotic massages.
From the many erotic massage parlors in Chiang Mai, I’d suggest these:
Aurora Club Cm
It is the go-to place for a massage, especially for those who are looking for a relaxing experience. It is conveniently located at 143/9, Villa No 7 Amphoe Mueang Chiang Mai, which is close to Somphot Chiang Mai, 700 Pi Road. The rooms are big and luxurious, and the girls in the fishbowl are drop-dead gorgeous! The services range from handjobs and blowjobs to full-on sex, depending on your preference. A body-to-body massage costs 1,700–1,800 Baht, while a sex massage can reach 3,500–4,000 Baht.
This is another massage parlor in Chiang Mai I like to visit occasionally for soapy massage service. It is Located on 3, Bumrungrad Road. The mamasans show you a lineup of girls, and you get to choose which one you want to have sex with. Prices for 90 minutes of full service are 1,500 baht for normal girls and 2,200 baht for good-looking girls.
Pink X Station
Pink X Station has two courses for girls: Pretty Class and Model Class. The pretty class is a little bit more expensive than the model class. It offers services, including body-to-body massage and blow jobs. Model B2B plus blow job is 1,900 Baht for 60 minutes, Pretty Model plus blow job is 2,100 Baht for 60 minutes, Model VIP is 2,800 Baht for 60 minutes, and Pretty Model VIP is 3,300 Baht for 60 minutes. You can find this massage parlor on 185, 1-3, Changklan Road.
This is an erotic nuru massage place, one of my favorite spots for sex, located on 73/2-3, Charoen Prathet Road. It offers a full-service nuru massage, costing 2,500 Baht for 60 minutes and 3,000 Baht for 90 minutes. The girls are all 18–25 years old and super hot.
In addition to the aforementioned massage parlors, other establishments, such as Mossa HUE Spa and Aloha Massage Chiang Mai, also offer erotic services.
These are only a few of the best massage parlors in Chiang Mai—my full list is even longer!
For those who want to party and meet girls for hookups, the nightclubs in Chiang Mai are the best places. They have loud music, a bustling atmosphere, and super hot freelancers. You’ll find the best clubs in Tambon Si Phum and Tambon Chang Phueak. To simplify your search for the Chiang Mai nightlife girls, here are some top nightlife spots to check out:
Zoe in Yellow
This is one of the top nightclubs where you can have a chill night and even meet a cute Thai girl for sex. Zoe in Yellow is a club usually filled with regular girls and freelance hookers. The entrance fee is between 150-200 Baht, and if you want to get laid, the hooker price ranges from 2,000–2,500 Baht. It is located on QXRR+F4X, Ratvithi Road.
This nightclub is also located on 48, Ratvithi Road, where you put glow paint on, dance to electronic beats, and play ping-pong. Besides the good atmosphere, BlackLight CNX is known for hot chicks, and expect to pay 1,500–2,500 Baht to get laid with those hot chicks. The entrance fee is 200–300 Baht.
Infinity Club, situated on 77/2, Chonlaprathan Road, is a restaurant, bar, and nightclub all in one. You can grab a drink here, listen to Thai rock or electronic music, and meet a Thai girl to get laid. The entrance fee is around 200 Baht, and the sex price for the freelancers here ranges from 1,500-2,500 Baht.
Candy Night Club
This is one of the fanciest nightclubs in Chiang Mai, with delicious food, great drinks, and extremely hot women (no regular girls here) & club freelancers. The entrance fee is 200–300 Baht, and if you want to get laid with the club freelancers, they expect to pay from 1,000-2,500 Baht. You can find this club on 308 310-312, Chang Moi Road.
For more farang-friendly spots to hook up with girls in Thailand, check out my full article on the best nightclubs in Chiang Mai.
4. Girly Bars(Beer Bars)
Beer bars are another important place to meet girls and get laid with them. They’re also called girly bars since Thai girls dress in revealing outfits and dance provocatively in front of you.
Sometimes, there might be no dancing involved, just hot girls waiting for you to chat them up and buy them a drink.
The best places to find backpacker bars to get laid in Chiang Mai are Loi Kroh Road, Chiang Mai Entertainment Complex, and Chiang Mai Night Bazaar. Here are my personal favorites:
This is one of my favorite girly bars located on 1, Talad Khamthiang Road. The highlight of the Hom Bar is the daily live music shows they offer. The entrance fee outside the roofed area is 300 Baht, while it costs 1,900 Baht to stand right in front of the stage. Despite the higher cost, the atmosphere is great, and you’ll find many single girls up for some dirty fun.
Roots Rock Reggae Chiangmai
Roots Rock Reggae is a cozy, chill beer bar with different bands playing every night. If you’re a reggae fan, it’s undoubtedly the place to check out. You’ll find that among the regular girls, there are also freelancers with pretty standard prices. You can find the place on 196/5/1, Ratchapakhinai Road.
Full Moon Bar
I find that Full Moon Bar has finger-licking food and great cocktails. The live music shows are even more amazing with the outdoor seating paired with the cozy atmosphere. The waitresses are super warm and welcoming and guarantee you a good time. The bar is located on 196/5/1, Ratchapakhinai Road.
The prices for the Chiang Mai bar girls at these bars are not displayed online. However, from personal experience, you can expect a bar fine in every beer bar ranging from 500-800 Baht, around 300 Baht for drinks, 1,000–1,500 Baht for a short time, and 1,500–2,500 Baht for a long time sex.
To explore more bars in the area, take a look at my article on the best beer bars in Chiang Mai.
5. Karaoke Bars
Karaoke Bars are another great place to find regular, sexy girls. At a karaoke bar, you get up on stage, the staff gives you a mic, and you sing a song of your choice. It usually has a super chill atmosphere and is packed with cute girls waiting for you to buy them a drink.
Evening entertainment is provided by certain KTVs in Chiang Mai, which provide private rooms with karaoke machines where you may spend a few hours singing and drinking. This may be enjoyed with a group of friends or in the company of a bar hostess.
Below are some of my favorite karaoke bars to meet girls to hook up with:
While many go to 10 Karaoke on 239/9, Wang Sing Kam Road, for the good atmosphere and great music, for me, the biggest attraction is the hot chicks in the bar. There’s no entrance fee for 10 Karaoke, and the beers are relatively cheap, around 100 Baht. The lady drinks are also affordable at 100-150 Baht.
Unlike other bars, in Paradise Karaoke on Chang Klan Road, you can pay to get a separate room for karaoke and drinks with some hot local girls. There is no entrance fee, and beer is around 100-200 Baht, including lady drinks. However, keep in mind that a room plus drinks may cost you around 1,000-2,000 Baht.
This is one of my favorite bars in Chiang Mai, located at 34 107, Tambon Chang Phueak since the girls are dressed in sexy student uniforms with short skirts and knee-high stockings. I spend an average of 900-1,800 Baht a night there, complete with a couple of beers and a lady drink.
Sakura Karaoke is a super cozy beer bar. The place is always packed, and the party scene is amazing. I love coming here, enjoying the beer, and looking for a girl for hook-ups. It is situated on 98-5/6, Sridonchai Road.
For easy and cheap sex, the streets are your best bet. Prostitution is very popular in Chiang Mai. You’ll find freelancers around Chiang Mai Marriott Hotel and Loi Kroh Road. These parts of town are filled with street hookers who will try to talk to you and offer you their sexual services. Don’t worry—a lot of them are very attractive, and I’ve hooked up with a fair share of girls here. You just have to put in the effort to look for them.
Mind that street prostitutes have much lower prices than girls in massage parlors and bars. This means you won’t pay more than 800–1,000 Baht for a short time and 2,000 for a long time. However, the prices go lower if the girls are not as attractive or if you come across a ladyboy.
The best time to find hookers around Chiang Mai Marriott Hotel and Loi Kroh Road is after 10 pm.
Tip: If you want to get a good-looking girl, look the part. Clean up well, do your hair, and dress nicely. This will definitely score you some good points with the girls! Many ladies also have a fetish for foreign men, so as long as you’re nice and respectful, you’ll have no trouble getting laid.
How to Find a Holiday Girlfriend in Chiang Mai?
A holiday girlfriend is just what the name suggests—a girl you get to spend time with during your holiday! Basically, this is a relationship with a short-term expiry date.
Usually, uni girls give foreigners the full girlfriend experience in Chiang Mai (sex workers and escorts are not what you need for a holiday girlfriend). Mostly, they are college girls who would love to spend the whole trip with you. You can meet them in a club or bar and start a short romance. With some of these hotties, you won’t have to pay them anything except the usual girlfriend treatment like food, drinks, rides, etc.
But I always advise finding a local girlfriend before you get to Chiang Mai. This way, you’ll chat with her for a while, get to know her, see whether you’re compatible, and then spend quality time in and out of the bedroom. For me, the best way to find a holiday girlfriend in Thailand is by using popular dating sites like Thai Friendly or Thai Kisses.
Live Cam Dating in Chiang Mai
Live dating or hooking up is not for everyone. But thanks to technology, there’s another way to get all your tension out—live cam dating! For everyone looking for some virtual satisfaction in Chiang Mai, there are plenty of online live cam dating sites where you can watch hot chicks as live cam models getting themselves off for your pleasure.
I always recommend LiveJasmin or Stripchat for those who want to watch really good-looking nude girls. Here’s more info about them:
It’s a very straightforward site. You enter it and choose a live chat room. There are Asian girls, European chicks, Americans—everything your heart desires. When you’re in Chiang Mai, go for the Thai girls. Chat with them, and if you’re interested, you can even ask for a private show.
Online sex on Stripchat is on a whole new level. You can enter the site without creating an account and watch regular women get down to business. There are live sex shows with two girls, single girls, girl-on-girl action—you name it, they have it! But the best part is that you can actually participate in getting them off by paying for some moves or toys (you must have an account for this feature).
How to Get LadyBoys for Sex in Chiang Mai?
Unlike Bangkok or bigger cities, Chiang Mai ladyboys are definitely nicer and more timid. They won’t irritate you about their sexual services and are open to a simple chat.
Sometimes, you may find shemales on the streets or in shopping malls. Don’t be mistaken; they are not prostitutes. So start chatting and see where it takes you. They won’t ask you for money but will be more than happy to go back to your hotel.
However, if this is too much effort, you can always find a ladyboy massage parlor or ladyboy bars where you can pay for the service. Ladyboy happy-ending massages are quite common in places on Loi Kroh Road. The nightclubs in Chiang Mai don’t have that many shemales, so I’d avoid them and head straight for the bars. I suggest the Ram Bar Chiang Mai since this one is filled with ladyboys.
Or, you can always go online. Online dating sites are the easiest and safest way to hook up with a ladyboy in Chiang Mai. These are my best picks:
You can choose from thousands of matches here. Arrange a date with a ladyboy you like and see where the night takes you. You can also find a shemale hooker and call her to your place for 1,000 Baht.
This site is for you if you’re specifically looking for ladyboys! Before you start scrolling, you’ll just have to create an account and add your preferences.
Over half a million users flock to this site daily, meaning you’ll surely find your ladyboy match here. You can create an account, browse with unlimited chatting features, and use the app so you never miss out on your conversations.
Best Guest-Friendly Hotels in Chiang Mai
One thing you must settle before you go to Chiang Mai is your stay. If you plan to have sex with girls, you must be sure that the love hotel of your choice allows bringing in local girls. I’ve found some great guest-friendly hotels in Chiang Mai where you can bring your Thai lady for the night:
Located in the Old City, this hotel is close to some attractions visitors can see during the day, such as the famous Wat Chedi Luang. The famous Loi Kroh Road is nearby, so singles can find girls and bring them back for a hot night.
Raming Lodge Hotel
Situated in the heart of Chiang Mai, the Night Bazaar, this hotel is perfect for those who want to sightsee during the day and party at night. Singles can have fun in bars or restaurants and, if luck strikes, take a girl to their room.
Movenpick Suriwongse Hotel
This girl-friendly hotel is near the Night Bazaar, so you can visit plenty of bars at night or hit the streets during the day. It has a full-service spa and a gym, among other luxuries.
Shan Boutique Hotel
Previously called CM Apartment, this is a great spot for those looking to spice up their stay. It’s in the Old City, only a 4-minute drive from the Night Bazaar. You can visit the famous Zoe in Yellow, which means you can party all night and continue the fun in your room.
Nap in Chiang Mai Hotel
If you want to be in the hot spot, this hotel is for you. Located right on Loi Kroh Road, you have the option to visit massage parlors, nightclubs, or bars at any time of the day. Even better, you can bring the girl back to a luxurious room.
Most of these short-time hotels are in prime locations so you can access those spots in less than 30 minutes. Plus, they allow bringing cute girls and freelance prostitutes for a night’s stay without extra charge. But if these are not up your alley, there are plenty of other best girl-friendly hotels in Chiang Mai.
Top Things to Do in Chiang Mai Sex Tour
The sex industry in Chiang Mai is blooming, so there are plenty of places foreigners can visit on their sex tours. But to make sure that your trip is the best, I’d suggest you check out at least these 3 things:
Get A Real-Life Girlfriend
When you don’t want to pay for sex or simply prefer to stay with one person during your sex tour, I’d suggest you find a holiday girlfriend. As I mentioned, with them, you get the whole girlfriend experience for a short period. The easiest way to find one is on an online dating site like Thai Friendly.
Start talking with them before you arrive in Chiang Mai; these real-life ladies will show you around and spend time with you under the sheets. Remember that some girls (especially those in college) may be sugar babies, meaning you’ll have to spend more cash to get their attention.
Note: Whatever beauty you pick, you should definitely know a word or two in Thai. Use Mondly to learn basic Thai words in a simple and entertaining way. Why do you need it? It gives an extra advantage to the normal ladies!
Soapy Massage Experience
There are 5 soapy massage parlors in Chiang Mai, mainly due to the difficult process of obtaining a license. All of them offer very low-price services—around 1,500 Baht to 2,500 Baht.
Here, you’ll hardly get a massage as the girl jumps directly to sex. Some sexy girls might slide down your body, all soaped up, but the quality mainly depends on whether she likes you.
Visit Loi Krah Road
The must-visit red light district is Loi Krah Road. All the top bars and nightclubs are situated here, with plenty of street prostitutes walking around to have sex with. Usually, they’ll give you a good tug for around 1,000 Baht, but it may go lower if they really like you. Finding one in the club may result in a higher price range of 1,500–2,000 Baht.
How to Get There and Move Around in Chiang Mai?
Now that you know what to do on your Chiang Mai sex spree, you should know how to get there and move around the city. Here are a few tips:
Chiang Mai International Airport serves both domestic and international flights, with direct routes from countries such as China, Malaysia, Singapore, Burma, and more. For travelers from other nations, the preferred option is taking a connecting flight through Bangkok. There are numerous budget-friendly airlines from Bangkok offering plenty of flights to Chiang Mai, ensuring accessibility for the average tourist.
I usually browse Kiwi.com when searching for cheap flights. The site has tickets from good airlines for way less than the official site.
A great way to travel in and out of Chiang Mai is by bus. The RTC City Bus has the largest road coverage, meaning you can travel to all important parts of the city for a set fee of 30 Baht. When visiting another city, I suggest you use 12GoAsia. Plenty of routes go from Chiang Mai to other parts of Thailand and vice versa. You can purchase the ticket online and get on a bus at the nearest bus station.
Another way to get into, explore the city or travel out of it is by train. Chiang Mai uses the Northern Railway Line but has interchanges at Ayutthaya and Bangkok. With around 20 departures per day, you can literally travel to any part of Chiang Mai or even go to another city.
The traffic in Chiang Mai is not as heavy as in bigger cities, so renting a car is a great option for getting around. Klook is a great website for renting a car in this city. All you have to do is pick a vehicle, choose the dates when you’ll need it and where you’ll get it, and then set the location where you plan on leaving it after the trip.
By Tuk Tuk:
Tuk-tuks are reserved only for inside Chiang Mai—you can’t pay a tuk-tuk to take you out of the city. To explore the beautiful scenery of Chiang Mai, consider getting a full tuk-tuk tour, which should cost around 200 Baht. But you can also use this ride to get from point A to point B in the city for 40 Baht.
Note: Don’t be afraid to bargain for the price of a tuk-tuk ride since drivers usually charge per person instead of distance here.
Another way to explore Chiang Mai is by boat. Getting around Chiang Mai this way is perfect for those who want to spend quality time on the water. You can enjoy the scenery and get to another destination in the city by floating on the Ping River. Of course, you can just take a boat tour and focus on relaxation.
Reminder: Regardless of the travel method you choose, never go out without insurance. Getting travel insurance is one of the first things I do when preparing for a sex tour. The provider I use is Checkdi. They offer travel insurance with a monthly subscription with complete coverage. Just log in and get your quote!
How to Stay Safe on Your Chiang Mai Sex Tour?
Having fun should be your first goal when on your sex vacation in Chiang Mai, but staying safe ensures you hang out with girls much longer. So, remember these few things:
- Avoid random and secluded areas where a lot of street hookers hang out.
- Be careful of your personal stuff around ladyboys and shady places.
- Always use condoms, and don’t hook up with ladies who are not from reputable places or look shabby.
- Walk in a group (if possible) to avoid scams and theft.
- Never leave the house without health insurance. Checkdi is the best option for me since you get cheap but very good coverage. You can use the app to call or email them for a price comparison and a quote.
There you have it—all the information on enjoying your sex travel to Chiang Mai. Whether this is your first time or not, remember to stay safe, but don’t let that hold you back. Going to every club and bar, you can get a happy-ending massage and enjoy every single moment with the spicy girls of Chiang Mai.