Vietnam Sex Guide

Vietnam has become one of the top destinations for single-sex travelers. With its stunning natural beauty, vibrant cities, and open attitudes, Vietnam attracts a group of male travelers looking for erotic adventures every year. From sensual massages to wild nights out on the town exploring the bustling sex scene, Vietnam offers limitless opportunities for anyone looking to take a trip to a sex tourist destination.

I will give you the ultimate insider secrets to planning an unforgettable first trip to Vietnam. Get tips for picking up girls in nightclubs, hostess bars, massage parlors, and online. In this Vietnam sex guide, you’ll discover where to find the most beautiful girls for sex.

Vietnam Sex Tourism – Introduction

Vietnam is one of the top sex tourist destinations in Asia. But the most important rule of thumb to keep in mind is that prostitution is illegal. With that said, Vietnam sex tourism is thriving, and you will not have problems finding the best sexual activities during your trip.

The indisputable fact is that sex tourism is a considerable and lucrative industry. It produces substantial income, acting as a vital economic resource for some and a way for mothers to financially support their children’s basic needs.

Vietnam is a great place to go for those seeking a nightlife scene in the movies. The beautiful natural surroundings and lively nightlife make Vietnam a unique destination for travelers looking to get laid. However, it’s essential to be savvy about currency when exploring. Knowing your Dong, where 100,000 Vietnamese Dong is equivalent to $4.10, is crucial for navigating expenses.

Top Sex Cities in Vietnam

Vietnamese women possess an outgoing and playful attitude. They are open-minded and very attractive. Keeping your main activities in the top sex cities in Vietnam will guarantee you get laid. I have listed the top cities to have sex with girls in Vietnam.

Vietnamese Girls and Their Dating Culture

Vietnamese girls are some of the most beautiful, feminine, and friendly in Asia. They tend to be petite, with sexy, slender figures, silky hair, and radiant smiles. The younger generation of girls in cities like Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh City are more sexually provocative. They dress stylishly, go out to clubs, and date foreigners.

Many Vietnamese girls are open to casual dating and relationships with Western men. They find foreigners to be more respectful and generous than local guys. These girls make charming companions for your trip, though establishing trust is key before intimacy. English skills are hit or miss, so learning some Vietnamese phrases will help your interactions, and the hot girls will come flocking to you.

9 Places to Pickup Girls For Sex in Vietnam

This list will give you the hottest spots in the major cities of Vietnam, what services are offered, and how much you can expect to pay. Now, let’s explore the best places to pick up girls for sex in Vietnam.

1. Online Dating

Using online dating sites to approach Vietnamese girls is, by far, the easiest way to get laid during your stay. We live in a time when your smartphone is just as important as your wallet. With dating sites, you can find a match and meet up for a date within minutes.

I found the most successful online dating sites to be AsianMatchMate, AsianKisses, and AdultFriendFinder. It’s best if you create a free profile a couple of weeks before your arrival and fill out the standard information. Once you verify your account, you will have access to view and connect with single Vietnamese girls looking for sex or relationships.

Costs:

The features available to you as a free member on any dating site are quite limited. Upgrading to a premium membership is really worth it for those looking for a special experience. There is a way to stay away from scammers and fake profiles.

A premium account upgrade is available for as little as three days and as much as a year. It was money well spent when I signed up for the 300-500k VND paid membership for a month and got access to everything!

Chat rooms featuring live cam models, the ability to message girls who have shown interest in your profile, and the ability to arrange to meet up in person are all features of the premium membership. Please be explicit about whether you are seeking particular sex services or if you are simply interested in going on a date.

2. Erotic Massage Parlors

The ideal place to meet and have sex with Vietnamese hot girls is erotic massage parlors. Vietnam has hundreds of erotic massage parlors, ranging from seedy (rundown and not clean) to upscale. Even for my first time in Vietnam, I could figure out which massage parlors offered a Vietnamese sex massage and which ones were strictly business.

When you see masseuses outside, dressed in sexy outfits and trying to get you to come in for a ‘Happy Ending’ massage,you’re in the right place. Just know that the attractive woman who draws you inside will not always be the one performing the massage.

Massage parlors like Lady Windy Spa in Hanoi, Dai Nam Hotel in Ho Chi Minh City, and Moonlight Hotel Massage in Da Nang offer luxury sensual body rubs with happy endings.

They offer many types of massage services to their customers, such as soapy massages and happy-ending massages(Hand job and Blow job). For example, Dai Nam Hotel offers body-to-body oil massages, which I felt were an experience in themselves.

If this is your first time visiting a top sex tourist destination, you can’t pass up the soapy massage parlors. These specific spas have a known ‘fishbowl entrance’ in the lobby, where all of the sexy Vietnamese masseuses are showcased with their sex prices and what they offer.

Costs:

The prices for a standard massage are around 300 to 500k. You will be tipping your masseuse separately from the service. At least an additional 300–400k is expected for a hand job and up to 1 million for sex.

3. Blowjob Bars (Hot Tocs)

An alternate hot place for the guys to get laid with sexy girls is Hot Tocs. It typically refers to a hair salon, but upon entering, you will be presented with a range of services beyond just a simple haircut. You may also see ‘hot tocs goi dau‘ (HTGD), which means the same thing.

The pink light outside the entrance and the attractive young women seated in front are good indicators that you’re in the right spot. For the best experience, explore the hot toc salon bars in Ho Chi Minh and Hanoi.

Blowjob bars in Vietnam are a unique experience. These small bars have naughty girls that specialize in performing oral sex. You are greeted and welcome to sit on couches or bar stools while the available girls showcase themselves.

You can touch the girls, but sex services are most likely going to be denied. It’s a more niche scene, but it’s worth checking out for something different. The blowjob bars operate mostly from early evening into late night.

Costs:

Expect to pay around a minimum of 400k for a ‘blow and go’ at a hot toc bar.

4. Escorts

The most discreet way of finding girls for sex is escort service. This service is available in major Vietnamese cities to book beautiful girls at your hotel. Websites like Smooci make it easy to browse escort profiles and arrange a date. Chat with the girl to get a vibe check before meeting. When she arrives, treat her with respect and agree on services beforehand.

Independent escorts can also be found through classified ad sites, though this approach carries more risks. To minimize the risks, it’s best to use a reputable agency like Smooci, a discreet online platform for booking escort services. This way, the arrangement involves the escort coming to the client’s location, ensuring a safer and more secure experience.

Check Smooci to find escorts available right away or for the next 24 hours. You can also look for offline escorts and get notifications when they’re ready for booking. See what other people say about the escorts by reading their ratings and reviews. This helps you know more about the quality of services they provide.

Costs:

Escorts are mostly discreet and know how to work expats for their money. The typical cost is around 3.5 million VND per hour, up to 6 million VND for the whole night.

Note: Since Smooci does not employ any of the escorts, each escort is either a freelancer and names their own price, which is negotiable, or they work for a third-party agency and have strict prices.

For more information, check out my smooci review article.

5. Nightclubs

Nightclubs in Vietnam are a prime spot to meet sexy Vietnamese girls. Mostly, the nightclubs are filled with freelancers and party girls. It’s more of an environment that locals and travelers, not looking for sex, frequent. But all it takes is for you to lock eyes with any of the single girls, and they usually come to initiate conversation.

The major cities, Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon), Hanoi, and Da Nang, have the most popular nightclubs in Vietnam; a few of them are Thi Bar Saigon, 1900 Club Hanoi, and New Oriental Nightclub.

Nightclubs in Vietnam commonly offer a mix of live music or DJ performances. The music genres may vary, catering to different tastes. Some nightclubs also incorporate other forms of entertainment, such as dance performances or themed events.

While each nightclub has its own set of rules, the consistent rules are 21 years old to drink and 18 years old to gamble. You will get used to talking to the locals at the clubs and negotiating your prices with the Vietnamese freelancers. Nightclubs typically open around 6-7 pm and stay open until 2 am.

Costs:

Enjoying the nightlife in Vietnam is not only fun and easy; it’s fairly cheap! You will have to pay an entrance fee of around 140k. Drinks at this place are not too expensive; you can get spirits and cocktails for about 100k each. The cost of hookers for a short time(2 hours) is 300k, and for a long time, it typically starts around 600k.

6. Karaoke Bars

Karaoke bars (KTVs) are a popular nightlife spot to meet Vietnamese girls, especially in Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh City. They are set up with private karaoke rooms where you can sing, drink, and get to know the young hostesses. Kingdom Karaoke, Karaoke Nnice 340 N.T.Minh Khai and Avatar Karaoke are famous karaoke bars you must visit in Vietnam.

You can select a girl to accompany you while you sing, buy a few drinks, and have fun. It’s standard for you to initiate business with a lady by buying her a drink. Most karaoke places have short-term rooms available upstairs.

However, for additional arrangements, you have to talk with the managers, who are ready to arrange it but might ask foreigners to pay more.

Costs:

You have your typical charge for sex with hostesses, 500k for the simple service, or 1,000k for longer overnight stays. That’s not all; you will also have to pay the manager a Bar fine of around 300-500k.

7. Girly Bars

One of the most important places to find girls and start to hook up with them is Girly bars. You might hear these bars are often called ‘Beer Bars’. These establishments are commonly filled with bar girls or hostesses. I spent a good amount of time hopping from one bar to another.

When entering these places, you aren’t overwhelmed with the feeling that you are in a brothel. You are welcomed into a lively scene with endless possibilities.

One example of bar girls or hostesses can be found at the Crazy Girls bar located on Bui Vien Street in Saigon. Other must-visit Girly bars are 159 Bar and Apocalypse Now in Vietnam. These girls will keep you company and engage in conversation with you as long as you purchase drinks for both of you.

In addition to this, these bars often have amenities such as pool tables and TVs, making them a popular spot for Westerners.

Costs:

Getting some company in Vietnam’s girly bars usually means buying at least one lady drink, and it usually costs around 100-120k for a whiskey coke or tequila shot. Alternatively, you could offer to buy bar girls a beer, as it will last longer.

The prices for sexual services can be negotiated, but generally, short-time (one-time sex) costs around 500-1,000k, while long-time (overnight) costs around 1,000-2,000k.

Additionally, hostess bars usually charge a bar fine of 300-500k on top of the service fee to compensate for the potential loss of business if you take one of their girls with you.

8. Street Hookers

Another affordable way to find and get laid with girls is finding street hookers. Hookers in Vietnam are looking for customers 24/7. You’ll find a variety of street hookers and ladyboys roaming the Vietnam streets.

I noticed a lot of the street hookers were more aggressive on prices. This was a good indication that they work for an agency or pimp and have to hand over a chunk of the money.

Hotspots include Walking Street in Hanoi, Bui Vien Street in Ho Chi Minh City, and around the beaches in Da Nang. I had hookers approach me on their motorbikes, offering casual sex like it was nothing.

I also encountered girls who exaggerated their ‘broken English’ for approaching me. A strong piece of advice: condoms are pretty much mandatory if you are approaching a street hooker that isn’t regulated.

Costs:

Ladyboys and hookers will negotiate a fair price for a short time. This shouldn’t cost you around 300k. You can ask for long-term service, such as on a date or to spend the night at your hotel. This can cost you 500k+. Keep in mind that during holidays and on weekends, sex service prices increase in Vietnam.

9. Red Light Districts

Red-light districts are perfect for those who want to experience the seedier side of Vietnam’s nightlife. Giving a specific location or street the title ‘Red Light District’ is the easiest way to know you can find a girl offering sex there.

Major cities like Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh have the most bustling red-light districts, such as Old Quarter and Bui Vien Street. These areas are packed with karaoke bars, massage parlors, and cafes. Red-light districts in Vietnam are also home to overpriced tourist traps. Just be careful when dealing with tricky people.

For Ho Chi Minh, the red-light area is located in and around Bui Vien Street. This district is the hot spot of Saigon and is considered Ho Chi Minh City’s largest red-light district. You’ll want to plan your stroll around 10 pm to get the full experience.

The Gia Lam district in Hanoi is best for earlier in the night, around 7 pm. You can find street girls dressed in sexy attire and half-naked women walking around topless. Also, check out the Old Quarter near Ta Hien Street. You’ll find street girls in booty shorts, ladyboys, and even a few Russian hookers.

Costs:

Since Vietnam’s red light districts tend to be a better business opportunity for prostitutes, prices stay somewhat comparable. Typical hostess girls and club freelancers expect you to buy them a drink, around 100k, plus the bar fine, around 400k, and negotiate the sex price, around 500k to 1,000k. If you are at an elite place like Apocalypse Now, you will be looking at around 2,000k for a night with a girl.

How to Find a Holiday Girlfriend in Vietnam?

Many Vietnamese prostitutes are willing to give you the whole girlfriend experience since a massive majority of these girls come from the poorest areas of the city.

For those new to being a sex traveler in Vietnam, a holiday girlfriend will provide the best time. She will do everything, from talking with you to spending time together, including sexual activities, throughout your vacation.

By having a local holiday girlfriend, you can experience more ‘less-known by tourists’ areas. She will know the best places in town for food and entertainment, along with the areas that aren’t as safe. Even better, you will probably have much cheaper costs since she knows the tricks of their trade.

While you can find a holiday girlfriend either in clubs or on the streets, the most discreet and easiest way to find a holiday girlfriend is through dating sites like AsianMatchMate, AsianKisses, and AdultFriendFinder.

Create a profile, chat with girls before your trip, and set up dates on arrival. Vietnamese girls on these sites are looking to meet and date foreign men. Treat her respectfully, and she can be your sexy travel companion.

Live Sex Cams

For those who are looking for instant fulfillment and virtual satisfaction with Vietnamese girls, online live sex is perfect. Live sex cams are safe and convenient and give you access to the sexiest Vietnamese camgirls without leaving your hotel. This is a convenience that goes unmatched for many travelers coming to Vietnam looking for sex.

Popular sites like Stripchat and LiveJasmin have hundreds of Vietnamese models live streaming 24/7. You get high-quality images, videos, and audio. The cam models are very attractive and interact with their viewers.

LiveJasmin has a massive selection of fetishes and kinks, so you can narrow down your results and find the perfect sex shows for you. Stripchat has VR cam shows for an immersive ‘real-life’ experience.

How to Get LadyBoys for Sex in Vietnam?

Vietnam has a vibrant transgender scene, especially in Ho Chi Minh City. Compared to other tourist areas in Southeast Asia, Vietnam is much more ‘hush-hush’ about the transgender community. Your first thought might be to run straight to Hanoi to find a Vietnamese ladyboy.

I’m here to tell you that you will have better luck in Saigon. You can find and meet ladyboys in Bars, nightclubs, massage parlors, and streets.

For the safest and easiest way to connect with ladyboys, online dating sites are the way to go. Platforms like LadyboyKisses and TS Dates have thousands of Vietnamese ladyboys. It’s important to note that these sites are not for finding escorts; they are more like dating sites. You can sign up for free, create an attractive profile, and start matching with ladyboys right away.

Top Things to Do in Vietnam Sex Trip

A sex trip to Vietnam offers endless erotic adventures. Here are some top things to try on your Vietnam sex tour:

Get a Real Life Girlfriend

Meeting a local girlfriend truly enhances your trip. You can find attractive, real-life ladies who are interested in having a mutually beneficial connection with you. Many of these women aren’t looking to be paid by the hour but instead are looking for someone to help them pay their expenses.

Use dating sites like AsianMatchMate and AsianKisses to find real-life girlfriends and sugar babies. She can be your sexy tour guide and companion between the sheets. Also, when using an online dating site like AsianMatchMate, you save yourself from the broken language barrier. While their translation feature makes it very easy to communicate, you shouldn’t rely on translation apps completely.

I ended up getting addicted to the Mondly App and was quite surprised at how quickly I learned basic phrases. Plus, it is literally like a game and so much fun!

Make a Visit to Erotic Massage Parlors

A lot of massage parlors in Vietnam are just fronts for sexual services. Despite their appearance as “health centers,” their only concern is satisfying your sexual desires and taking your money. These establishments are quite pricey, with a basic service that includes a hand job starting at 400K Dong and a sex massage priced at 500K Dong.

Make a Visit to Hanoi

In Hanoi, the girls are often described as timid and reserved, but they give off a strong sense of femininity and sensuality. They are eager to please and will do their best to ensure that you have a memorable experience with them.

Two of the most well-known clubs in the area are 1900 Club Hanoi on Walking Street and Hero Club, which draw numerous attractive women and eager men of all ages nightly.

Cost of Living

Vietnam is one of the most affordable destinations in Southeast Asia. You can expect to pay 20-30% less for products and services compared to Thailand. Here are the average prices you can expect:

Lodging

Housing in Vietnam is getting closer to 85% apartments compared to houses. With the population expanding in the major cities throughout Vietnam, you can still expect to pay close to 300k to $2000k for lodging.

Food

Hoi An is the food capital of Central Vietnam. Here, you will find the cheapest and most exotic meals. A hearty meal at a local cafe or street vendor costs about 50k. For a nice indoor, 3-course meal, you will most likely pay over 100k.

Drinks

Drinks are pretty standard throughout the cities at around 20k for a lite beer, 50k for a craft beer, between 60k and 150k for a glass of wine, and around 100k for a cocktail. You should purchase bottled water, around 10k; I suggest not drinking the tap water.

Transportation

Buses, taxis, and motorbikes are fairly cheap for commuting around Vietnam. Taxis cost around 10k for the initial km and approximately 15k for the next 30 km. Buses charge VND 15k (US$ 0.65) – VND 40k.

Internet and Mobile Operators

The internet speed and available networks are very comparable to Thailand. Wi-Fi is available at many hotels and restaurants, but you’re offline once you leave that spot. You want to have access to escorts and online dating sites 24/7. Don’t forget about emergencies or directions, too!

Here, I have recommended some of the top internet and mobile operators that will be more useful on your vacation.

• Viettel is the largest mobile network operator in Vietnam. The company is a trailblazer in introducing the first 5G service in this country. Viettel accompanies you throughout your vacation by providing outstanding service.
• Vinaphone has become the second largest and fastest network operation in Vietnam. It gives good coverage throughout the country.
• Another option that is very budget-friendly is Mobifone. It provides service to expats at an affordable cost.

How to Get There and Move Around in Vietnam?

I have listed the different modes of transportation used to get there and move around Vietnam.

By Air

With over 20 airports, most international flights arrive at three airports: Tan Son Nhat International Airport(Ho Chi Minh City), Noi Bai International Airport(Hanoi), and Da Nang International Airport. From there, you can take domestic flights and reach other destinations in Vietnam.

I recommend using Kiwi.com. It offers advanced search filters and other tools to refine your results and also allows you to be flexible with your travel dates. It also has a multi-city tool that can help you save money on flights and offers a guarantee for flight disruptions or delays for a small fee.

By Bus

Traveling by bus is highly recommended if you are traveling a long distance. Bus service in Vietnam plays a major role in getting into, getting around, and moving away from the country. Buses from other countries, such as China, Laos, and Cambodia, are used to get into Vietnam.

If you’re looking for a one-stop-shop booking platform, 12go Asia has it all. There are close to 20 direct routes to and from Vietnam’s intercities.

By Car

In Vietnam, rental car services are widely regarded as a convenient and safer means of transportation. Rental car service is mainly used to get around the cities.

Experience the country’s diverse landscape and lively culture at your own comfortable pace. Visit Klook.com to book your car and enjoy a comfortable ride.

By Train

Rail services in Vietnam serve as a means to get into, get around, and move away from the country. A direct train from Beijing, China, commences its journey, making stops at Hanoi and Gia Lam stations before continuing its route to South Vietnam.

You don’t have to worry about the traffic driving rules, and you get the benefit of minimizing air pollution. Better yet, the trains are very comfortable, relaxing, and cheap!

By Boat

Since Vietnam is surrounded by water, traveling by boat is quite common. Boat service also serves expats to get into, get around, and move away from the country. From Phnom Penh, Cambodia, numerous boats or speedboats offer a 4 to 5-hour journey to Vietnam. Opt for these vessels or cruise ships for your voyage to Vietnam.

From ferries to catamarans and passenger boats, you will commute to the many banks in Vietnam. Several ferry services are available for you to reach islands like Con Dao, Cat Ba, and Phu Quoc, as well as smaller islands. Take advantage of leisurely activities such as experiencing the Mekong Delta by boat or embarking on a cruise through Halong Bay.

Travel insurance is a necessary companion for every traveler to ensure a secure journey. Checkdi offers an all-inclusive, and you can also take advantage of Ante’s calmness as you travel to Vietnam and discover the hot and sexy nightlife.

Visa Process in Vietnam

Getting a Vietnam travel Visa grants anyone from more than 80 different countries the opportunity to travel to Vietnam. With iVisa, you can apply for a digital Visa online. This particular travel document remains valid for a period of 30 days following arrival and permits a single entry into the country.

How to Stay Safe During the Vietnam Sex Tourism?

Ensure your safety in Vietnam by adhering to these essential guidelines.

• While acts of violence against foreigners are rare, pickpocketing and motorbike theft are common occurrences in larger cities. Make sure you are always wearing a secured bag.
• While enjoying the vibrant atmosphere, it’s advisable to act like everyone else and not look too much like a tourist. Being aware that looking like a tourist might make you an easy target for scams, confidently negotiating prices is a proactive approach to ensuring a smooth experience during your travel.
• Aside from your personal belongings, your actual health is very important to keep safe. I, along with any other Vietnam traveler looking for sex, all agree that you must use condoms.

I prioritize my safety over fun, so I personally recommend Checkdi. With their reliable insurance support tailored to your needs, you can enjoy your vacation confidently, safeguarding against unforeseen events and enhancing the overall travel experience.

Final Thoughts

The options for sexual pleasure are endless in Vietnam. Live out your fantasies by mixing and matching the erotic activities that interest you most. This Vietnam sex guide for travelers can only prepare you for this exciting adventure. Once you arrive in Vietnam, this guide will still serve its purpose, so make sure to bookmark it!