Bali Sex Guide

Have you ever dreamed of chilling on the beach during the day and enjoying steamy nights with hot chicks under the sheets? All that is possible only in Bali! No wonder this exotic province in Indonesia is everyone’s bucket list destination.

For those who are looking to spice up their sex holiday, Bali is the perfect place. There are dozens of spots you can visit here and get laid—you can meet girls in clubs and bars for one night, get beautiful girls to be your holiday girlfriend, or simply let some steam off with a quickie in a massage parlor.

Since enjoying hookups with the Bali girls on your sex vacation is the top priority, I’ve created this Bali sex guide. So, let’s see where you can find girls for sex, as well as a few other things you’ll definitely need when visiting this city.

Bali Sex Tourism – Introduction

Sex in Bali is not talked about openly as we are doing right now. Instead, the people prefer to keep it on the low. But trust me, it’s happening around every corner.

A few years ago, Bali wasn’t a well-known sex tourist destination. But with more and more tourists coming in, it changed drastically. Yes, prostitution is still illegal here, but everyone turns a blind eye since even locals want to hook up with sexy girls.

Today, Bali sex tourism is centered around one part—South Bali. Here, you’ll find the famous Kuta, Ubud, Sanur, and Denpasar, also known as the cities with the most important red-light districts. But these are known far and wide, so they may be a bit crowded.

In that case, visit Seminyak, Canggu, and Southern Legian. The sexual activities in these cities occur mostly in high-class venues, so they’re not visited by everyone. In my opinion, that’s a huge plus—no competition and a lot of hot local Indonesian ladies fighting for your attention.

About Bali Girls and Their Hookup Culture

Bali is an exotic destination with many breath taking places, but all of those have nothing on the local Indonesian girls. Bali girls are not just hot with dark hair and raven eyes and tiny, slim figures but are also very adventurous, fun, and open-minded.

Bali girls find foreigners quite exotic, so don’t be surprised if they come up and talk to you. They don’t care about you leaving the next day, and some of them won’t even ask you for money—these sexy Indo girls just want to have a good time.

But don’t be mistaken; they still hold some traditional values about family close to their heart. So, before you date Indo girls for a long time, learn more about their culture and chat with your girl about the future.

Whatever the case, you should remember one thing—they are really trying new things, even in the bedroom!

9 Places to Pickup Girls for Sex in Bali

Your sex vacation isn’t complete without the top spots to meet girls on this beautiful island. Below, I’ll show you the best places to get laid with sexy girls in Bali:

1. Online Dating Sites

Bali dating sites are an easy way to match with normal-life girls and ladyboys from all over Bali and indulge in some dirty fun. You can also find sexy local ladies who you can date while in Bali.

Most sites offer pretty good benefits to free users, but a full membership will definitely simplify your search for horny singles. Here are some of the best dating sites in Bali:

Cherry Blossoms

In its 50 years of existence, Cherry Blossoms has garnered over a million users and sparked thousands of relationships. When using this dating site, you create your profile and state the type of relationship you seek, after which you’re free to browse the hot Indo girls on the site.

When finding a person who seems like a good match, texting them and starting a conversation is possible, but it is only for paid members. Paid members can add up to 12 photos, get paired with potential matches specifically tailored to their tastes, and send custom messages.

AsianMatchMate

This dating site caters more to those looking for sex buddies since it has features like cybersex, live cams, live model shows, etc. With over 8 million users, it’s the go-to site for Bali girls, swingers, and people of all sexualities looking to experiment, including ladyboys.

Paid users get unlimited messages and tips and can even send virtual kisses and virtual gifts. Plus, they can allow free members to message them. To learn more about this site, check out my full review on AsianMatchMate.

AdultFriendFinder

This online dating site is perfect for an expat dating in Bali who wants to open up the possibilities for various kinks and fetishes. Keep in mind that you can only interact with users only as a paid member. Other paid features include the option to view someone’s full profile, send gifts, watch live streams, and add friends.

To get started, simply create your profile, enter your dating and sexual preferences, and start chatting with the Bali ladies once you choose your membership plan. Read this full review of AdultFriendFinder before signing up.

AsianKisses

Asian Kisses, one of the most famous Indonesian dating sites, boasts over 600,000 users waiting to get laid! On this site, women can send emails to men for free, but you have to be a paid member to contact them first. Daily contacts and text translations are free, while all other features are exclusive to premium users.

If you decide to pay, you’ll be able to increase your number of contacts, allowing you to text any member as well as get full access to photos. Get started by signing up, filling in some personal info, and adding your preferences in a girl. After that, you can start chatting and dating local Bali girls!

I actually have a full guide on the best dating sites in Indonesia you can check out here.

2. Erotic Massage Parlors

You can get the best Balinese happy-ending massage at one of the massage parlors in Kuta, Legian, Denpasar, and Seminyak. These parlors pose as legitimate massage places but offer adult services to those who are clever enough to find them. Here are some of my favorites:

Royal Palace Spa & Entertainment Bali

You can find this spa in Denpasar in Jl. Gn. Soputan Gg. Segina No.32 from 12:30 pm to 11:30 pm. A 2-hour massage with a happy ending here costs around 1,200,000 IDR, and a 1-hour massage session is about 800,000 IDR. This is one of the best sensual massage spas in Bali, with very good-looking girls and rooms with amenities.

River View Spa & Lounge

You can visit River View Spa on Jalan Kresna No.04 from 11 am to 11 pm. Here, you can get a Massage Plus Plus (handjob) for 450,000 IDR, whereas a happy-ending massage costs 950,000 IDR, including a jacuzzi room. A threesome with two girls is the most expensive option at 1,700,000 IDR. There aren’t specific prices for a long and short time.

Sway Bali Spa (formerly Swell Spa)

Sway or Swell Spa is located on Gg. Berlian No.25 and is open from 10 am to 12 am. Here, you can get a variety of sex massages, but common services include an hour-long body-to-body massage with a naked masseur for 750,000 IDR and a 90-minute sex massage for 900,000 IDR with two girls. You can also get an oil massage with Nuru gel for an extra 250,000 IDR.

Zona Spa Bali

This spa is located on Pertokoan Sunset Indah 1 Sunset Boulevard 89 and is open from 12 pm to 10:30 pm. The girls here dress up in sexy costumes like nurses and maids. The prices run between 800,000–1,000,000 IDR, the higher rates being for a full massage plus sex experience for an hour and a half. A short time may be as cheap as 500,000 IDR.

Want something more? My full guide will help you learn about the best erotic massage spa in Bali with all-inclusive services.

3. Girly Bars (Beer Bars)

Another great place to get laid with horny girls in Bali is girly bars. Girly bars” are referred to bars or establishments where female staff, often referred to as “bar girls” or “hostesses,” work. These establishments often have a casual and lively atmosphere, with music, dancing, and the opportunity to socialize with the female staff.

Jalan Legian Street in Kuta (between the Ground Zero Monument and the intersection with Jalan Benesari), Seminyak, and nightlife spots around Bukit are home to dozens of girly bars. In these bars, customers buy drinks for the bar girls and get to talk to them and even take them home.

The sex prices for bar girls are pretty much the same at all girly bars; I’ll summarize them here. A short time for hostesses (60 min) costs around 500,000 IDR, whereas a long time (an hour and a half or two) goes up to 1,000,000 IDR.

Here are some of my favorite girly bars in Bali:

Red Carpet Champagne Bar

Located on Jl. Kayu Aya No.42, this girly bar is open from 12 pm to 1 am (from Sunday to Thursday) and from 12 pm to 2 am on Friday and Saturday. A beer here costs around 40,000–50,000 IDR, and a girly drink is around 60,000 IDR.

You’ll have to ask the manager for the bar fine. Anyway, seeing the lively atmosphere and the many gorgeous working girls, I’m sure the bar is fine and worth it!

Rock Bar

This is one of the more prestigious bars in Bali. It’s located on Jalan Karang Mas Sejahtera and is open from 4 pm to 12 am. A girly drink here will cost you around 150,000 IDR, but it’s worth it for the sexy ladies!

Aside from the working girls, you can also find freelancers hanging around, offering sexual services for a lower price. Beers cost around 70,000–80,000 IDR, and you can find out how much the bar fines are by talking to the manager.

The Reunion Club

This popular bar is located on Jl. Legian Gg. Troppozone and is open from 10 am to 1 am. Besides a cold beer and karaoke, it’s filled with attractive Indo girls waiting to get laid! A beer here is around 50,000 IDR, while girly drinks are 60,000 IDR.

The manager will tell you the price of the bar fine once you pick your girl. And if you don’t like the girls there, you can try to seduce one of the regular girls or even get a freelancer to join you. The lively beats fill the room and make it a very pleasurable and chill place to hook up.

Some other options that are also considered the best girly bars in Bali are listed in my full guide.

4. Nightclubs

The nightclubs in Bali are excellent places to dance, drink, and meet sexy Bali girls. Nightclubs in Bali are known for their lively and energetic ambiance, with pulsating music, dynamic lighting, and an overall vibrant atmosphere. These establishments are mostly filled with freelancers and regular girls.

Besides regular girls, you might be approached by kupu-kupu malams (also called night butterflies or Indonesian prostitutes) who provide sex services. The entry fee is around 100,000–200,000 IDR.

The nightlife venues with the most night butterflies are:

Sky Garden

Sky Garden is located on Jl. Raya Legian No.60, Kuta, and it is open from 9 pm to 4 am. The entrance fee is 200,000 IDR for weekdays and 250,000 for weekends and comes with an extra drink or two. There are many freelancers here, so the prices vary a lot. The club freelancers are expected to pay between 1,000,000 and 1,500,000 IDR for the night.

La Favela

“This nightclub, situated at 177X Jalan Laksamana Oberoi, operates from 7 pm to 3 am on Sunday through Thursday and extends its hours to 4 am on Friday and Saturday.”

It’s a cross between a club, a bar, and a restaurant so that you can eat, drink and meet freelancers. The entrance fee is around 100,000 IDR. The prices for sex with freelancers vary between 1,000,000–1,500,000 IDR.

Red Ruby

Red Ruby is one of the most popular sex clubs in Bali. It’s located on Seminyak No.919 and is open 24 hours. The entrance fee is 150,000 IDR here, which fits the average standard. You’ll encounter many regular Bali girls and freelancers here, as the club predominantly plays disco music. Freelancers may charge up to 2,000,000 IDR for sex with them.

I have a longer list of the best nightclubs in Bali—check it out here.

5. Bali Escorts

Besides dating sites, massage parlors, and bars, another way to get laid is with sexy escort girls. And the best place to get in touch with call girls in Bali is Smooci. Navigating Smooci is a breeze—all you have to do is create an account and start browsing!

To book female escorts, you’ll have to follow a couple of simple steps. First, you’ll have to tailor your search filters to show exactly what you’re looking for. The next step is to book your escorts in Bali by confirming the time, place, and price.

Your escort will then start sending you updates on their location so that you’ll know they’re on their way to you. To know more about the site, Read my personal review of Smooci.

6. Karaoke Bars

A great spot to meet some of the hottest chicks is karaoke bars. In these places, you basically get a room where you can kick back and relax with some songs—the perfect way for a foreigner to let loose.

These Karaoke bars in Bali also double as places where you can meet Hostesses(working girls). Besides the working girls, many of these spots are frequented by call girls and freelancers who provide sex services once the place closes.

You can also ask to sing with the hostess if that’s something you want, but know that you may be charged something extra. If you’ve started your night in a separate room, then you can keep it (no added charge) and get the pleasure ride there.

The bar fine here is around 100,000 IDR, depending on the place. The prices for sex also vary. For example, a short time is usually 500,000–600,000 IDR, while a long time is over 1,000,000 IDR.

Here are a few must-visit karaoke bars:

EC Executive Karaoke Bali

EC Executive is located on Jl. Imam Bonjol No.386 and is open from 2 pm to 3 am. This is one of the more sophisticated karaoke bars in Bali, so expect to be wrapped up in a more posh ambiance. Because of that, the lady drinks might cost you around 120,000 IDR. Even the freelancers at this bar are more expensive and may charge over 1,500,000 IDR.

De Berry Karaoke Denpasar

You can find this bar on Jl. Teuku Umar Barat No.110, and it’s open from 11 am to 2 am on most nights. This bar is more laid back and has quite an energetic scene, and because of that, many college girls like to come here, especially on the weekends. The lady drinks here cost 70,000–80,000 IDR.

Happy Puppy

Libbi Plaza Denpasar – When walking nearby 86F4+467 Jl, you’ll see this bar, which is open from 11 am to 2 am. This bar is filled with sexy hostesses who usually hang out with the men who come in, especially if they keep the drinks coming. The lively music urges you to keep having fun and buy these girls one or two girly drinks—note that they cost 70,000–80,000 IDR.

I have so much more to say about the best karaoke bars in Bali—read my full guide here.

7. Street Hookers

A good place for cheap sex in Bali is to get laid with street hookers. Visit the Ground Zero Monument in Kuta, where most freelancer hookers gather. Legian Street, the area around Poppies Lane 2, and the zone from Embargo to Paddy’s Club are also quite popular. And if you go at night, especially after midnight, your chances double!

Most often, street prostitutes will come to you instead of the other way around. They’ll likely start with a lower price for a handjob or blowjob and, after, try to convince you to pay more for sex.

The price for sex doesn’t exceed 200,000 IDR for a short time, depending on the Bali hookers. The most beautiful hookers in Bali sometimes charge as much as 500,000 IDR, but you can find a decent-looking one for much cheaper. A long time is sometimes double the price because it can last from an hour and a half to 3–4 hours.

To sleep with the girl, you’ll have to book a room at a nearby hotel. Also, you should know that there are many Indo ladyboys. For those who aren’t into this, you can simply walk away—just know that the ladyboys generally charge less.

8. Bali Shopping Malls

A lot of local Indo ladies and freelancers hang out in the malls in hopes of running into a handsome gentleman like you. I highly recommend you to check out the following shopping malls.

Beachwalk is located on Jl. Pantai Kuta. If you come here alone, looking for someone, know that usually local Bali girls in their late 20s visit this spot. So try to meet a girl, shoot up a casual conversation, compliment something, and make her yours.

You can visit Discovery Mall on Jl. Kartika Plaza if you want to find college girls. It’s near the beach, so not only does it have a beautiful location, but it also offers various amenities, restaurants, and events.

Mal Bali Galeria is located on Jl. Bypass Ngurah Rai. If you’d like to meet some regular ladies and take them to the cinema or a drink before the main act, this is the place to go.

When it comes to approaching hot Bali girls at these malls, you should buy them a drink first or at least make some conversation. Most of these Bali girls aren’t freelancers, so they’re looking to meet someone they’ll actually like.

9. Night Markets

Another place to meet girls to get laid is Night Markets. Many normal girls in Bali prefer markets over malls because they’re more traditional. Night markets specifically attract more working ladies who go there at 11 pm, which is around the time most markets close for the day. They’ll often approach customers themselves, but you can also recognize them by their sexy outfits.

Here are the best night markets to visit to meet hot Indo girls:

Sanur Night Market (Pasar Malam Sindhu) – This night market is located on Jl. Danau Tamblingan No.10, and it’s open from 6 pm to 10 pm. This is the place to meet regular ladies or street freelancers. The locals here are welcoming to tourists, so feel free to engage with them. Don’t hesitate to start a conversation ask a girl to share her number or meet you another time.

Garlic Lane – You can visit Garlic Lane on Jl. Sahadewa No. 11 Legian Kelod from 7 am to 10 pm. Hot Indonesian girls frequent this market a lot, so you’ll run into many Balinese girls.

Kereneng Night Market – Kereneng is located on Jalan Rijasa, Dangin Puri Kangin, and operates from 5 pm to 12 pm. Here you can mostly find hot cougars here, looking to have fun with foreigners.

How to Find a Holiday Girlfriend in Bali?

The first time I went to Bali, I saw a few foreigners walking hand in hand with a stunning young Bali girl. I remember I wondered how in the world they could get such a gorgeous Balinese girlfriend, but I soon found the answer—those were holiday girlfriends!

These real-life girls give foreigners the full girlfriend experience during the time you stay in Bali. Single women here want to date a foreigner for a short time, go sightseeing with them in restaurants and clubs, and finally, spend a steamy night together.

So, how do you find a local girlfriend? You can go to Bali and try to hook up with nice local ladies, maybe even ones that work in stores or malls, and meet them after work. Or you can go with my favorite way—online dating sites.

Sites like AsianMatchMate, Asian Kisses, Cherry Blossoms, and AdultFriendFinder are top platforms for meeting Bali girls. Just make sure you create a good profile with the most recent picture of you, add honest information about yourself and what you’re looking for, and start talking. When the day comes to meet your girl in Bali, trust me, you won’t regret it.

Live Cam Dating

Hot Bali girls are a thrill to be around, but what happens when you don’t want to go to clubs or parlors to get a good tug? Well, that’s why someone invented live cam dating. I’m talking about online sites where you can watch nude Asian girls undress and get ready to impress.

Online sex is the best way to get virtual satisfaction when on your Bali sex travel. For my recommendation on where to watch nude Indo girls, go with these two:

Stripchat

Whenever I want to relax and have fun, I open Stripchat. This site has hundreds of live chat rooms where you can watch and even interact with some local Bali girls. For those that have an account, ask the Bali chick for a private show—they’re 10 times better than the regular cam shows!

LiveJasmin

You do not need to create an account to watch live cam models from Bali in different categories. The thing I most like about this site is that you can move your mouse over each girl’s room and see what she offers. If that sexy Bali girl offers something you like, join in and start the fun; if not, drag the mouse to the next one until you find what you like.

How to Get LadyBoys for Sex in Bali?

Indonesia is a mostly Muslim country, meaning it’s somewhat conservative. However, places like Bali break out of those chains, which allows LGBTQ+ people to walk freely around. So, for those looking to get laid with a ladyboy, Bali is the best destination.

Ladyboys in Bali might not be seen during the day, but you can surely find a lot of them in bars and clubs once the sun goes down. Some also work in massage parlors giving a sensual massage or even an oily one—but you have to specifically ask for a ladyboy massage.

Of course, there are always Waria (as the locals call them) on the streets. You’ll notice them easily—Bali ladyboys are taller than the girls and are not afraid to approach you first. Just visit Jalan Camplung Tanduk in Seminyak. This area is known for its LGBT night scene, so chances are you’ll encounter ladyboys here.

But all of these ways include exposure, which is why most Waria stick to online dating. Joining an online platform for ladyboys is the safest way to meet one and get to know them before you take things to the next level. Here are my best options:

LadyboyKisses

Indo ladyboys from all over join this site to meet foreigners who share their interests. There are no fees to chat with members, so you can easily look for a Bali ladyboy and start a convo. Just log in and start browsing through the photos, or use the filters to see sexy Bali ladyboys matching your preferences.

TS Dates

Registering is free here, so you can quickly find a local Bali ladyboy for dating or some fun. However, the best feature is the high level of security. TS Date’s system ensures all info is safe and you don’t get scammed by a catfisher.

There’s also a setting that allows you to see when you’re talking to active members. But you will need to upgrade your profile to chat with other local Bali users.

Best Guest-Friendly Hotels in Bali

To get the best time on your sex vacation, you need to stay in a hotel that is in the middle of the action. That’s why I added this part to my guide! I’ve found some top spots that are in prime locations in Bali, giving easy access to clubs, bars, malls, and anything else where you might find girls for casual sex.

Plus, I’ve made sure these hotels are guest-friendly, also known as you can bring girls back to your room for free. Here are the best guest-friendly hotels I’ve been talking about:

Want to see other best guest-friendly hotels in Bali or some short-time hotels? Go check out my other blog about it!

Top Things to Do in Bali Sex Tour

Out of everything I mentioned you can do in Bali to find a girl to have sex with, I think these three are a definite must!

Get A Real-life Girlfriend

Get a real-life girlfriend to experience the real thrill of Bali. Many young Indo girls won’t ask for money or expect something more after your trip, but they may want to be a sugar baby, i.e., you’ll have to pay for everything on your dates. However, they usually return the favor in bed in a way that money can’t even buy.

Basically, all you have to do is take them on walks and lunches, buy them small things to show your appreciation, and, most importantly, talk to them. That’s why I advise everyone to join Mondly and start learning Indonesian before they go to Bali. Why Mondly? Because the lessons are simple and structured to teach you everything from start to finish in a fun and interactive way.

The easiest way to find a Balinese girlfriend is, of course, through dating sites like AsianMatchMate, Asian Kisses, and Cherry Blossoms. For more info on each platform, scroll up and see my short reviews or find the more detailed blogs.

Visit Erotic Massage Parlors

Visit a Bali erotic massage parlor at least once. Trust me, it’s a real experience! The massage girls in these places are very pretty, and they always smile while serving you (even when they blow you). Some parlors also have Indo masseurs.

In my experience, I once asked for a Nuru massage and ended up very pleased with it, but the oily massage from these working girls is still my top choice. As for the cost of a massage in Bali, expect to pay around 900,000–1,000,000 IDR.

Visit Nightclubs

The nightlife in Bali is defined by nightclubs, so you’d be missing out a lot if you don’t visit one or two. I’d advise you to go to different ones each night and meet hot Bali girls who you can bring back with you to your room or even go to a short-term hotel. Even if you’re not looking for a hookup, you can still enjoy the music and dance with beautiful Bali girls.

How to Get There and Move Around in Bali?

Now you know how to get laid in Bali, but do you know how to get there? I’ll share the top 4 ways to travel to Bali and get around it.

By Flights

When going directly to Bali, book a flight to I Gusti Ngurah Rai International Airport. This is the second largest airport in Indonesia (after Soekarno–Hatta), located in the Jimbaran area of Bali. After you get off, you’ll need a bus to get to Denpasar (the capital of Bali).

Another option is to take a flight through Soekarno-Hatta International Airport, Jakarta, the capital of Indonesia. Then, you can take domestic flights from Jakarta to reach Bali.

So, to cut on the expenses, go with a service that’s both reliable and low-cost. I’m talking about Kiwi.com. You can find good flights from any destination to Bali for a very affordable price in just a few clicks.

By Bus

In 2004, the bus system in Indonesia got the longest BRT network, and ten years later, it was also implemented in Bali. Today, Trans Sarbagita operates four routes all over the province, transferring around 5,000 passengers per day. The prices go around 2,500–3,500 IDR. You can also use feeder services or mini-buses and pay more or less 3,000 IDR for a ticket.

However, all of these transportation methods are only for inside Bali. But there are long-distance buses that can take you to other cities in Indonesia. You will have to arrive at the Mengwi terminal and catch a long-distance bus. This terminal connects Bali to other cities such as Jakarta, Yogyakarta, Surabaya, and Banyuwangi, allowing you to travel to and from Bali.

Another way to go from one city to another or even to a neighboring country is to book a ticket via 12Go Asia. The site is very easy to navigate and has buses for as low as 600,000 IDR that are very comfortable for a long drive.

By Cars

The best way for me to travel around Bali is by car. You can get a cab from one place to the next and pay 6,000 IDR per kilometer. But this doesn’t guarantee on-time arrival, and a lot of cabs have their own territory, so they might not take you too far.

That’s why I prefer to rent a car. Klook is a good site where you can find a vehicle that you like and rent it for the whole stay on the island or just a few days. Fill out the information online and pick up the car where you’ve arranged it.

By Boat

Bali is a place where even cruise ships come to bring in foreigners. So it’s no surprise the Tanah Ampo Cruise Terminal was built in Karangasem. This way, those going on long cruises can make a stop and enjoy Bali’s beauty.

But even those stationed on the island during their vacation can explore the place or hop from one to another of the smaller islands via one of the many daily boat and ferry tours. The ferry tours are most frequently used to get around Bali.

How to Stay Safe on Your Bali Sex Tour?

Bali is generally safe for sex tourists, but I always give some tips to just be on the safe side:

• Have condoms all the time – It’s always better to be safe than sorry, so make sure you have a rubber with you if you plan on sleeping with different hot Bali girls.
• Stay away from illegal drugs – Indonesia’s laws on drug possessions are harsh. Sometimes, you might not even have some, but walk in sketchy areas, and someone might slide you ecstasy or magic mushrooms without you knowing.
• Have insurance – Whether you get robbed or injured, insurance can cover it. Checkdi offers cheap health and travel insurance—just visit the site and pick one before you go to Bali.
• Don’t engage with people asking you to complete a survey – 99% of the time, these are scams. People might come to ask you to fill out a survey and go to a resort later for free—but this is not true. Also, note that petty scams are common, so keep your things close.

Final Thoughts

There you go—you’re now ready to get laid in Bali. Book one of the hotels I recommended (they’re cheap and offer amazing services; plus, they are very close to the action), visit some of the spots I talked about, and start nailing one chick after the other. Or, well, date them—the expat dating scene in Bali is huge!

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