Thailand Sex Guide

If there’s one thing I can tell you ahead of your first trip to Thailand, it’s that a little inside knowledge goes a long way.  Learning a thing or two about the place and its culture before heading East for a sex vacation is something you really need to do. This is precisely why I penned this Thailand sex guide – a no-nonsense, no-holds-barred blueprint to ensure you get exactly what you want and plenty of it.

Trust me – I know the kinds of questions on your mind. How easy is it to get laid in Thailand? Do I need to ask for a ‘happy ending’, or does it come as standard? How much does a blowjob cost? What’s included if I pay for ‘long time’ instead of a quickie? All of which you’ll find answers to in this page, enabling you to dive headfirst into Thailand’s dynamic and vibrant sex industry with a clear picture of what to expect.

Sex Tourism in Thailand

Tourism in itself is a big deal in Thailand. People travel from all over the world to consume the scenic beauty of this country. However, sex tourism is a big part of this country, and so the number of people taking the Thailand sex vacation keeps getting bigger each year.

You will notice that many single men travel here to experience the highly revered Thai sex tourism every year. Out of the total tourists that visit Thailand, about 60% of them are men. Additionally, 70% of these men are single and only visit Thailand for its sex tourism.

The sex tourism industry has become an integral contributor to the economy. Studies have approximated that Thailand generates about $6.4 billion through the sex trade. This, when converted to the Thailand baht, is a very big amount for the country.

You are all set to make the most of your solo trip here and have tantalizing sexual experiences. Although the dry season, i.e., April through November, is preferred for travel, you can have your Thailand sex vacation whenever you please.

If it’s your first time in Thailand, be sure to visit at least a few of the most amazing Thailand nightlife destinations while you are here on holiday. These happening spots are mostly in places like Pattaya, Bangkok, Chiang Mai, Phuket, and Koh Samui.

Continue reading this Thai sex guide to make sure not to miss out on the fun on your solo holiday!

About Thai Girls and Their Hookup Culture

It’s no coincidence that Thailand has the kind of hookup culture that’s the envy of the world. Unsurprisingly, around 70% of all men who visit Thailand have one thing and one thing alone on their minds.

Thai girls are naturally sexy, which, when coupled with an outgoing and playful attitude, makes for something seriously mind blowing. Particularly if you’re into feminine and submissive women with completely open minds, there’s really no place better for a sex vacation.

From tall and skinny to short and curvy, there’s something to suit (literally) all tastes and preferences. Plus, given the incredibly open nature of the sex industry in Thailand, actually finding and hooking up with the hottest women on the face of the earth really couldn’t the easier.

Just be sure to have a good idea of what you want in mind – that sexy girls almost always let the men they entertain take control in the bedroom!

Best Cities to Get Sex in Thailand

10 Places to Find Girls for Sex in Thailand

It’s time to jump into Thailand’s nightlife, where amazing moments with attractive women await. Get set as we reveal the top 10 places to meet girls for sex in Thailand. Each place is a doorway to the universe of Thai bar girls, charming locals, and famous spots for those looking for something extra. Let’s start the adventure!

1. Beer Bars (Girly Bars)

Call them beer bars, girly bars, or bang bars (as some often do); you’re basically looking at the same thing – the single most popular haunts in Thailand for no-questions-asked sex.

What’s great about beer bars is how you’d barely even realize you were in a high-profile brothel. They’re relaxed, welcoming, and fantastically casual venues where you can indulge in pretty much anything you like, but there’s no pressure to do so if you’re just out to enjoy a draft Chang beer and catch some live sports on TV.

How it Operates

As you would anywhere else, you simply walk into a girly bar, take a seat, and place your order. Thai bar girls usually hang out in groups but can also be found sitting alone at the bar later in the night. Inviting a bar girl to your table for a drink basically confirms your interest in her, at which point it’s up to you what happens next.

You can hang around, get to know her, play bar games with her, or ask for the ‘all-inclusive’ girlfriend experience (GFE). Of course, there’s also the option of skipping all that and taking her back to your hotel for sex.

For that, you have to pay her a “bar fine.” (If you like a girl and want to leave the bar with her, you pay a bar fine, which makes up for the bar’s lost earnings from her not selling drinks. It doesn’t cover anything after that – it’s just for the right to take her out). Then you can head to your hotel for some private time. Just remember, the barfine is separate from what you pay for sex with the girl.

Cost

Drink prices vary – anything from 70 Baht for a draft beer and 200 Baht for a lady drink. The typical cost for a bar fine is 500 Baht. The sex price from beer bar girls is usually less than 1,000 Baht for a short time and 2,000 Baht for a long time.

2. Online Dating Sites

The next easiest place to find sex in Thailand is online dating sites. You’ll soon see during your trip that people in Thailand are just as addicted to their smartphones as anywhere else. But rather than wasting time on social media or YouTube, they’re actually on the lookout for hookups.

Millions of men and women use these sites daily to find sex partners who aren’t in it for the money. Think of it a bit like Tinder out West, only with a near-total focus on no-strings-attached sex, with none of the usual BS.

How it Operates

Using dating site is the easiest way to find sexy Thai women to hook up with who aren’t only interested in your money. Most girls on these sites are normal everyday Thais – local bar workers, 7/11 clerks, students, cashiers, office workers, etc. – who, just like you, are out for a good time.

You’ll find several popular dating sites catering to this, such as Thaifriendly, Thai Kisses, Asian Match Mate, and ThaiFlirting. Also, you’ll come across the occasional freelancers in the mix, but they’re pretty easy to spot by way of their profile pictures and bios.

To get started, you can register with one or more of these reputable dating sites in Thailand. Once you’ve registered, you can check out the profiles of other users and reach out to the girls you’re interested in. You can invite them for dinner, take them to a movie theatre, hit the beach together, or even just arrange a casual coffee date. You might not always score a home run on the first date, but treat them right a couple of times, and you’re golden.

Cost

No Cost involved for Basic Features – Thai dating websites offer free access, allowing you to connect with as many women as you desire. Although essential features are complimentary, you can enhance your experience with premium packages, which typically range from 300 to 800 Baht per month.

3. Night Clubs and Pickup Bars

Joints that really do bring together the best of all worlds, nightclubs, and pick-up bars in Thailand combine hedonistic party atmospheres with an all-access pass to the best sex of your life. As a bonus, the girls that hang around these places work independently, so you don’t have to pay a bar fine if you decide to take them home.

How it Operates

It’s pretty easy to distinguish the thai hookers from the real girls in sex clubs…trust me on that one. So it’s up to you which way you go, but it’s customary to put your hand in your pocket and treat them to at least a couple of lady drinks – no cheapskates allowed.

Most clubs in Bangkok and Pattaya have an entry fee of about 300-400 THB, after which you’re free to hang around and do your thing for as long as you like. Hit the dancefloor, scope out the scene for girls looking for love, or make a beeline for the girl of your dreams and get straight down to business.

If unsure about the situation, you can always ask them, “Do you come here often?”, or ask them where they work. They’ll know exactly what you’re actually asking them, and they’ll let you know the score with no offense taken either way

Cost

Draft beers will set you back no more than around 80 Baht, while lady drink prices vary from 100-200 Baht. Whiskey is a popular choice in Thai clubs, but you’ll want to send the right message to the ladies in the place by picking up a bottle if you can – priced at around 800 for something cheap (like Sam Song or Blend 258) or closer to 1500 Baht for an international brand (like Johnnie Walker).

If you decide to head home with a hooker, 1000 Baht is about the average you can expect to pay for full service, increasing closer to 2000 for the hottest ladies in the club.  However, you might get a ‘discount’ if you’ve been particularly generous with her at the bar!

4. Go Go Bars

These are by far the most popular night spots in Thailand’s red light districts. Go-Go bars are typically where you’ll find the hottest girls and mind-blowing experiences are guaranteed!

How it Operates

 
Everything works in a similar way to Thai girly bars. You’ll be shown to a table by a waitress (who may or may not be on the menu), after which you can order a drink and watch the horny girls do their thing on stage. Some go-go bars feature super-hot Thai ladies in sexy costumes or bikinis; others go totally nude – check out our “nightlife” section for more info on the best joints for both.

When they’re not busy getting you rock hard with their performances, you can approach the girls you like the look of, buy them drinks, hang out with them at your table, or invite them straight back to your place for sex – it really is that simple. Just remember to pay the bar fine and your tab before you leave!

Cost

Things are slightly pricier in gogo bars than beer bars simply because most of the girls you’ll find here are way hotter. A Singha or Chang beer will set you back around 130 Baht, lady drinks come in at around 200 Baht, and the bar fine will usually be around 1,000 Baht. Back at your hotel, a short time will cost you around 2,000 Baht, or you can upgrade to a long time for 3,000 Baht, which is pretty cheap for how hot Thai go go girls can be.

5. Escorts Sites

If you do not want to go through the trouble of going to bars and clubs to pick up girls, you are in luck. With the escort services booming in Thailand, you can have sexy girls at your doorstep. There is a variety of girls on these platforms. From authentic Thai escort girls to Russian whores, you have the option of all of them.

How it Operates

What’s cool about escorts in Thailand is you can pick from a variety: young students looking to earn, women in their twenties with different body types, and even ladyboys skilled in various things. Just go online, book, and in about an hour, they’re at your door. Navigate through escort sites like the game-changer site Smooci. Imagine a virtual playground where you can check out profiles, read helpful reviews, and pick the best escort for your adventure.

Check out this Smooci review to learn more about how escort sites work in Thailand.

Cost

The going rate for 2 hours time with an escort in Thailand is between 3,000 and 6,000 Baht (2 shots = you can cum 2 times). Yes, that’s quite a big range, but it highly depends on her age and attractiveness.

There’s also a huge range of additional sexual services available – BDSM, golden shower, role play, massage anal, and even the full-on GFE (Thai girlfriend experience).

6. Happy Ending Massage Parlors

Pretty much the most iconic sex tourism spots in the whole of Thailand, happy-ending massage parlors are basically irresistible after all; who can say no to an amazing massage for no more than around 400 Baht, performed by a super-hot girl who might just finish you off if you’re lucky!

Telling the difference between conventional masseuses and those who take things a step further is easy. If they’re wearing sexy clothes, smiling at you provocatively, and touting for business openly, you’re looking at the good kind. Traditional masseuses don’t do any of this – they dress more casually, and you have to approach them. 

How it Operates 

If you decide to dive in, trust me when I say it’s always better to go for the oil massage. A Thai massage without oil is great, but if it’s a happy ending you’re after, it’s always happier with lube in the mix! 

You’ll be led into a private room, where you’ll be asked to take off your clothes and lie on a table or mattress. She’ll massage you from head to toe for 20-40 minutes, at which point she’ll say, “Massage here, mai?” She’s basically asking for the green light to get down to business, after which you’ll be free to use the on-site shower before leaving.

Cost

Remember that the price of the massage itself doesn’t include the happy ending – 300 to 400 Baht for an oil massage in Pattaya and Bangkok, slightly lower for the oil-free experience. Payment for hand jobs is technically offered as a tip of 500 Baht or more if you’re really happy. 

Thought it’s worth noting that sex and blow jobs are not on the menu at happy ending massage salons. 

7. Soapy Massage Parlours

Everybody knows what goes on behind the scenes at these places, but there’s still something nice and discreet about soapy massage parlors in Thailand. Hence, they’re great for tourists looking to pop their cherries in a slightly subtler way.

How it Operates

Free-to-enter, soapy massage shops greet guests with comfy lobbies complete with “fishbowl” display cases (basically a lineup of the women you can hire on display behind a sheet of glass). They’re sometimes categorized by way of their looks and experience (massage girls, sideliners & models), each of which will cost you a different amount.

You’ll be approached by a manager (papasan or mamasan) who will explain the prices to you, which cover the erotic, soapy massage you’ll receive and full sex. You’re free to relax and have a few beers before it all starts, or you can just dive right in if you’re horny as hell. 

Pick your girl, and she’ll lead you to a private room, where she’ll get you nice and soapy before sliding all over you with her boobs and ass. Shortly before you’re about to burst (or at whatever point you’re ready), you can put on your condom, have sex, and head home happier (and cleaner) than you’ve ever been.

Cost

Soapies (massage salons) generally charge between 2,000 and 3,500 Baht for the full-service experience in major thai cities like Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket, but might be slightly cheaper out of town in places like Khon Kaen or Korat.

8. Blow Job Bars (Bj Bars)

No beating around the bush here – these joints deliver exactly what the name suggests! It’s a fairly new addition to the sex trade in Thailand, but one that’s quickly become a hit among visitors and locals alike.

How it Operates 

Seriously – how can you argue with a bar where you get to chug down a cold Chang or sip on a Scotch while a gorgeous girl sucks your dick? You can literally sit right there at your table and have her go down on you while you relax and soak it up – an unbelievable experience.

These places have reinvented the ‘Blow and Go’ concept in Thailand – a place you head to blow your beans as quickly and enjoyably as possible before heading off elsewhere. You don’t even have to buy a beer if you don’t want to – just sit down, wait to be approached, and tell them exactly what you need.

Of course, if the idea of being blown before others is a little too extreme for you, there’s always the option of heading upstairs (or behind the curtain at the back) for a little more privacy. But you can hear girls sucking other customers.

Cost

Though totally optional, bottled beers will set you back about 100 Baht each, while lady drinks fall within the 120-140 Baht range. The blowjob itself will cost you around 800 Baht, but remember there’s no discount for blowing your load early…which you probably will your first time out! 

9. Streets

If you’re looking to go totally old school – which is just fine – you’ll never be far from a whole world of streetwalkers in Thailand. You can find street hookers on Bangkok’s Sukhumvit Road, Pattaya’s Beach Road Promegade and walking street, Phuket’s Bangla Road, and Chiang Mai’s Loi Kroh Road.

How to Approach them

Super simple – you can either ask them their name to engage them in conversation or just ask them outright, “How much?” Hooking up with street girls is all about quick fixes – they’re not usually the types to do a long time, but there are occasional exceptions. 

Street girls can be just as hot as those found in any bars or clubs in Thailand – they just prefer to work solo rather than share their income with employers. Meanwhile, others hit the streets because they were fired from the bars they worked in or were caught stealing from their clients. 

Not that this means they’re risky – you just need to take extra care when you hook up with them and always keep an eye on your wallet.

Cost

Cheap sex as chips – no more than 1,000 Baht for a short time with a street hooker, while the long time comes in at a bargain 1,500 Baht.

10. Everyday Life Situations

Having sex for free in Thailand is always an option if you fancy your chances of playing the ‘day game.’ This is basically where you approach normal girls in the real world as they go about their business with quick and easy hookups in mind.

How to Approach them

Foreigners like you will always turn ladies’ heads in Thailand. Your unique looks and accent are guaranteed to work in your favor, so it’s worth keeping an eye on who’s checking you out. Local workers, college girls, young professionals – all out for a good time, just like you. 

But here’s the thing – Thai girls are often nervous about their English skills, which is where picking up a few local language basics can make a huge difference. If you can approach them and say, “Hi, how’s it going?” in their own language, ask for their phone number, or even just ask to add them on social media, they’ll be all over you!

Most men simply don’t make this kind of effort, so it’s (almost) guaranteed to pay off. A great place to get started with a few Thai basics is Mondly – a super-simple online app that’s great for picking up tough languages like Thai in no time at all. 

Cost

None strictly involved, but the least you can do is treat her to dinner and/or maybe a few drinks if you’re looking to win your way into her heart (and other parts).

Live Cam Dating in Thailand

If you’re looking for quick-fix virtual satisfaction in Thailand, you can always give live cam dating a try. It’s a fantastic way to satisfy even the kinkiest appetites without leaving your hotel room or getting yourself fired up before heading out for real.

Two of the best sites you’ll want to check out for all things virtual sex are LiveJasmin and Stripchat. Both of these work in similar ways, where you can check out plenty of real-time camming action for free or buy tokens to join the more premium sessions on offer. 

There’s a massive range of categories to choose from – everything from fetish to flirting to amateur to transgirl – and you can interact with the girls you hook up with in real-time, which is pretty sweet.

How to Find LadyBoys for Sex in Thailand?

It’s a side of the Thai sex trade that never fails to raise eyebrows, but if you’re looking for something you’ll never experience anywhere else in the world, don’t write off the idea of ladyboy hookups.

They’re surprisingly difficult to distinguish from real women – they’re sometimes even hotter than the real thing. The only difference is that ladyboys tend to be more outgoing, so they’re more likely to approach you in a provocative way than regular Thai girls.

However, it’s important to note that ladyboys can be found in various places in Thailand, including ladyboy bars and on the streets of Pattaya, Bangkok, and many other districts. While some may be open to friendly interactions, it’s crucial to exercise caution. Street ladyboys in Thailand are generally thieves, and they are very arrogant.

For those seeking a more discreet and secure option, online platforms like Thaifriendly, TS Dates, and Ladyboy Kisses are sites to hook up with local trans singles. These aren’t escort sites – they’re online dating site portals that connect open-minded adults who are looking for eye-opening experiences. All you need to do is register, browse what’s on offer, and reach out.

They’re also free to sign up with, so you might as well give them a shot and know your secret is safe!

Top Things To Do in Thailand Sex Tour

There are many things to do in Thailand that you just cannot miss out on when you visit for your Thailand sex vacation. Here are some top picks for you that you should certainly try while you are here.

Make a Visit to Pattaya

Pattaya is known for its scenic beaches and happening nightlife. From a quaint fishing village in the 1960s, Pattaya has taken a complete 180-degree turn and has become a party hub in the east of Thailand.

The girls in Pattaya have evolved to love the party culture and are extremely welcoming to foreign men. Visit any of the major red light districts here, like Walking Street and Beach Road, to meet sexy Thai girls in the city.

Make a Visit to Erotic Massage Parlors

The party life of Thailand is not for everyone. If you want a relaxing sex holiday, then you need to try the massage parlours here. They are unlike anything you have ever experienced at massage shops or parlors before.

The erotic massages with essential oils will take you to a sexual plane you have never even imagined. Moreover, the popular soapy massage is a must-try if you want the complete Thai massage experience.

Get a Holiday Girlfriend

Have you ever thought about having a holiday girlfriend? She’s like your cultural guide, adding a special touch to your adventure as you explore the amazing tapestry of our country. Thaifriendly is your ticket to the easiest path to finding a girlfriend, offering a user-friendly platform to connect with like-minded individuals.

How to Get There and Move Around in Thailand?

Thailand is well connected, and you will have no trouble traveling inside the cities or between cities. Below are some popular ways to commute in Thailand as a single male traveler.

By Air

Reaching Thailand’s exotic shores is a breeze, thanks to its major airports. Suvarnabhumi Airport in Bangkok and Phuket International Airport are primary gateways. For hassle-free flight bookings, explore the options on Kiwi.com – a reliable source for affordable tickets.

By Bus

Getting around Thailand is a breeze with its well-connected bus network. Whether you’re headed to bustling cities or serene towns, buses are your ticket to an easy journey. From comfortable rides to various routes, you’ll find that buses are a reliable and affordable way to explore the diverse beauty of Thailand’s different cities. Move between destinations with ease by utilizing services like 12goAsia for convenient bus bookings.

By Train

Getting around Thailand is a breeze with its train network connecting cities seamlessly. You can hop on trains at major railway stations in different cities like Bangkok, Chiang Mai, and Phuket. Just head to these stations, get your ticket, and you’re on your way to exploring the beauty of Thailand by rail.

By Car

Zoom through Thailand with ease via its extensive network of well-maintained roads like the Asian Highway and the Phahonyothin. Explore multiple cities effortlessly, thanks to the convenient intercity travel options by Car. Discover the country’s diverse landscapes and vibrant culture at your own pace. Adventure awaits on the open road! Platforms like Klook offer affordable rental options to enhance your journey.

Ensure a safe journey with travel insurance, a crucial companion for any traveler. Turn to Checkdi for affordable and comprehensive travel insurance that ensures peace of mind as you explore the captivating landscapes of Thailand.

Visa Process for Thailand

For those planning a remarkable Thailand sex vacation, understanding the visa process is essential to ensure a seamless entry:

If your stay in Thailand is less than 15 days, you can opt for a Visa on Arrival (VoA) at designated immigration checkpoints. However, for an extended exploration beyond 15 days, a Tourist Visa is required.

To simplify your visa application process, turn to iVisa. This platform offers an easy and efficient way to obtain your Thailand visa. With user-friendly features, iVisa ensures that your journey begins with the right documentation.

Internet and Mobile Operators

Stay plugged in as you adventure through Thailand’s vibrant landscapes – because even a sex trip deserves reliable Wi-Fi! Here’s the scoop on the coolest mobile operators to keep you connected and share your wild tales:

• AIS: These guys are the kings of coverage. AIS ensures you stay linked, whether you’re sipping cocktails on a beach or dancing your heart out in Bangkok’s neon wonderland. Choose from a variety of prepaid packages – they’ve got your back.
• TrueMove H: Trust is key, and TrueMove H delivers dependable coverage that’ll let you post those epic selfies while you’re living it up. Find data plans that suit your style – whether you’re an explorer or a beach bum.
• DTAC: They’re all about options, catering to every budget. DTAC’s got competitive data packages that let you stay connected while you’re on the move. Plus, they’re like your trusty wingman on your Thailand adventure.

So, fellow sex tourists, don’t miss out on sharing your unforgettable stories and connecting with fellow tourists and expats. Grab a tourist sim card from these champs, and let the world know you’re getting laid in Thailand, one epic moment at a time!

How to Stay Safe in Your Thailand Sex Vacation?

While exploring the enticing realm of Thailand’s sex vacation, prioritizing safety is crucial. Here are some tips to ensure your journey remains enjoyable and secure:

• Choose Established Venues: Opt for well-known establishments to minimize the risk of scams and fraudulent activities.
• Practice Responsible Drinking: While indulging in Thailand’s nightlife sex scene, moderation is key. Avoid excessive drinking to maintain awareness of your surroundings.
• Protect Your Health: To ensure a worry-free adventure, consider obtaining health insurance. Checkdi provides comprehensive health insurance options to safeguard your well-being during your Thailand sex vacation.
• Avoid Public Wi-Fi for Sensitive Transactions: Protect your online presence by avoiding public Wi-Fi for financial transactions or sharing personal information.
• Stay Alert to Scams: Be cautious of overly friendly strangers offering unsolicited services. Ensure all transactions and agreements are clear and transparent.
• Respect Local Laws and Customs: Familiarize yourself with Thailand’s laws and cultural norms to ensure respectful behavior.
• Use Condoms: Having fun is important, but so is taking care of your health. Always use protection no matter who you’re with!

FAQs

What is Meant by Short Time and Long Time?

In Thailand, “Short Time” (ST) means spending a short while together, usually for 1-2 hours. If you want more rounds, it’s good to talk about it beforehand. “Long Time” (LT) means spending the whole night and maybe even the next morning together. You can either go on a date or just hang out for a longer period.

What is Meant by Bar Fine in Thailand?

A “bar fine” is a payment made by a customer to a bar or club to take a worker, often a bar girl or dancer, out of the venue. This payment is typically associated with spending more time with the worker outside the establishment, often for sex.

Do All Hotels in Thailand Permit Me to Bring Girls to My Room?

No, not all hotels in Thailand allow guests to bring girls to their rooms. It varies from hotel to hotel. Some are fine with it, while others may have restrictions. It is best to check with the front desk – they hold the keys to your romantic escapades. But keep in mind, you have to pay the joiner fees for some hotels.

What is Meant by Mamasan and Papasan in Thailand?

In Thailand, a Mamasan (if female) or Papasan (if male) is the friendly bosses of the go-go bars and other adult entertainment places. They’re in charge of making sure customers are having a good time. Plus, they look after the girls or boys who work there, as well as the waitresses.

To Sum up

This Thailand sex guide can only paint a picture of Thailand for you. The real experience will show you what Thailand is like. Make the most of your trip by going local and doing things that you feel are right.

Try out the GoGo bar, massages, and escort services to make your sex vacation a memorable one. However, do not forget to carry protection and have condoms on you just to be prepared at all times!

Trust me when I say that if it’s not covered in this guide, it’s not worth knowing!