Laos is a country with a rich culture situated in the heart of the Indochinese Peninsula. It is a great tourist spot, with a long tradition and many places to visit. But did you know that Laos is also a great place to find cheap sex? Many think that the best sex spots in Asia are Thailand and Vietnam, but trust me, sex in Laos is a different adventure.
Today, I’ll share everything I learned on my sex vacation in this country with everyone who wants to go on their sex trip for the first time or those simply looking for something new. In this Laos sex guide, you will get information about where to meet and find girls for sex in Laos, how much it will cost, what you’ll need to do to catch the eye of a Laos girl, and many other important details.
Today, I’ll share everything I learned on that sex vacation with everyone who wants to experience a sex trip for the first time or those simply looking for something new. In this Laos sex guide, you will get information about where to meet and find girls for sex in Laos, as well as how much it will cost and other important details.
Laos Sex Tourism and Nightlife
Before you start looking for places to get laid in Laos, you must know that the sex scene here is not on the same level as in Thailand. In fact, sex between a foreigner and a Laos girl is illegal. This is why I highly advise you to check with your hotel whether you can bring Laotian girls back with you before you book it—discretion is key! It’s also not common to find hookers on the street and get them to your hotel—most Laos girls only work in bars or nightclubs.
But all of this doesn’t mean that sex tourism in Laos is not good. On the contrary, I walked down some of the most famous red-light districts and had a really good time. In fact, in recent years, this country has lessened its hold on adult-oriented fun, slowly becoming a haven for sex tourists.
Although it may be difficult (but not impossible) to find sex in Laos during the day, the night tells a different story. I visited some bars, nightclubs, and massage parlors during my first several days and even gave the famous karaoke clubs a go. Not only did I end up having tons of fun, but I also spent a lot of time enjoying Laos’ nightlife!
About Laotian Girls and their Hookup Culture
Women here are more timid and introverted. However, I think this is what makes the experience even better, as these sexy girls are submissive and try to fulfill your every desire once you pick them up. Their bodies are not as voluptuous as their Western counterparts; they’re petite and thin with tanned skin and usually dark hair that goes down to their waist.
In general, these girls are shy so that you may have a harder time dating or hooking up with them. Luckily, local girls in Laos are moving toward a more liberal view on sex, so they’re more and more curious and love the attention they get from foreign tourists (even if they don’t show it right away). You’ll have to be patient and slowly peel off the layers until you earn their trust.
Best Cities to Get Laid in Laos
This guide is more of a general overview of my sex vacation in Laos. But I’ve also made several specific guides from the cities I visited in this country. The top destinations you must check out to experience the best sex trip are:
The two red-light districts in the capital of Laos are filled with some of the sexiest and quite liberal Laotian girls. Unlike other cities, picking up girls in Vientiane is easier, so prepare to get laid!
Karaoke bars and hostess bars are some of the most famous places in Luang Prabang where you can get good and cheap sex. The girls here are timid but can show you a wild night if you treat them right!
This small, beautiful village is the best place to find freelance sex. Local women are highly interested in foreign men and looking to have some fun.
6 Places to Find Girls for Sex in Laos
Now, let’s dive straight into the main thing you’ve been waiting for—the six best places to get laid in Laos!
1. Online Dating Sites
For an easy and fast way to find sex in Laos, I advise you to try online dating sites, specifically these two:
Asian Match Mate – This is one of the most trusted dating sites where you can only find laotian girls wanting to meet, have sex, or date.
Asian Kisses – There are plenty of girls here of all types, ready to meet and talk to you. And if by some chance you don’t speak the same language, Asian Kisses has an online translation.
How It Operates
Simply enter Asian Kisses or Asian Match Mate and register. Type in what type of girls you’re looking for, and you’ll be greeted with a long list of hotties. As I’ve said, Laotian women are reserved, but if you’re nice and polite, you will easily find a Laotian lady on one of these sites. However, there are still those looking for a classy foreigner who will treat them with care and respect.
It’s completely free to meet girls in Laos this way.
Another great place to meet Laotian girls for sex is to go to a nightclub. Laos nightclubs are very laid-back, even as the DJ’s energetic music blasts on the dance floor. Most of these places are in Vientiane and Luang Prabang. Some work until 1 a.m., but I’ve seen clubs open till 3 a.m.
As for the best nightclubs, I suggest you stick to the more famous ones and those located in the center. Some popular options are:
- Phoenix Night Club (Vientiane)
- Dao Fa Hotel Club(Luang Prabang)
- Icon Klub (Luang Prabang)
How It Operates
Just walk into a club, find a seat, and get a drink. Unlike other cities where the girls throw themselves at you, Lao women will calmly sit at the bar waiting for you to approach them first. Make sure you buy them a lady drink and be polite if you want things to move forward.
Most Laos girls in nightclubs are looking for mutual fun, meaning you don’t pay for sex. However, these places are known to be frequented by Laos hookers who ask for 410,000–820,000 Laotian Kip (LAK) per night. The drink prices vary, but you can expect to pay around 20,500 LAK to 82,000 LAK for a large beer.
Sadly, many bars are now closed as the government in Laos seeks to tune down the nightlife. But there are still several working as lazy riverside bars along the Mekong River. From my experience, the best bars are in the capital, such as Ohlala Bar. But you can find pubs in other cities like Vang Vieng—here, I suggest visiting SAKURA BAR.
How It Operates
Just like in a nightclub, all you have to do is enter the place, sit down, and order a drink. The difference between the clubs and bars is that the latter have a quieter atmosphere, giving you the chance to chat all you want with the bar girls.
Remember: it’s customary to buy a drink for the lady that catches your eye—a good way to show you’re interested in her. But Laos hookers also hang around these places, although not as much as in clubs. Since most of them are Thai or Vietnamese, getting a BJ or sex is easier.
Again, depending on the city, the prices will vary. Hookers usually have a fee of 410,000 LAK to 820,000 LAK, but you can negotiate a price. As for the drinks, Beer Lao is generally 41,000 LAK while other drinks go around 82,000 LAK.
4. Massage Parlors
Most massage parlors are tucked in behind hotels or bigger establishments, hiding what’s really going on behind closed doors. Vientiane is the city with the best and most massage shops; the best one is attached right next to the famous Vientiane Plaza Hotel.
How It Operates
Since these places are low-key, you’ll have to know about them beforehand. From what I’ve seen on my trip to Laos, a lot of Vietnamese girls worked here. But local girls were an option, too.
Once you know where to find a massage parlor, just tell them you want a happy ending massage and choose a girl. You will be guided to a separate room, and the “show” will start. Some parlors also have an oil massage and a body-to-body massage, which, let’s just say, gives a very happy ending.
Depending on the type of massage you’ve asked for, you’ll pay around 410,000 LAK. Of course, if you choose a soapy massage and the full service, the price will go up (maybe around 1,025,000 LAK, plus tips for the girl).
5. Karaoke Clubs
Another place where you can meet sexy Laotian women is a karaoke club (KTV). A lot of businessmen frequent these places, so naturally, the girls are very pretty. Also they are also very cozy and chill, with Laotian beauties serving the drinks.
I would advise, however, to learn a few words in Lao because these girls have little to no English skills. Not many foreigners know this, but you can also talk with management and arrange a “VIP service” with one of the girls—of course, discreetly.
Vientiane has the most options, with Club DPlus and Batman Pub & KTV are the best, but Luang Prabang is another city filled with karaoke bars.
How It Operates
It’s the usual sit and order a drink. If you’re in the mood, you can try to sing and entertain a Loas girl so that the talking starts. As I mentioned, Laos girls need a bit of foreplay to get in a private room, so you can soften things with a few drinks and a nice chat before you invite them to a private party. Or, if you’re here with one goal to get laid in Laos—then see whether management lets you visit the upper floor rooms with one of the hostesses.
These places can be cheap, offering you Beer Lao for as little as 20,500 LAK. Regarding sexual services, you can find a Laos hooker willing for a quick blowjob or more and lead her to the higher floor of the KTV (where the private rooms usually are) or to a hotel nearby—all for 370,000 LAK. But some KTV hookers might charge you 820,000 LAK and up, depending on what you bargain for.
Since Laotian girls are timid and don’t want to break the law, finding a lady in the malls is an option. But you will have to date her before anything else.
Weekends and holidays are when these areas are filled with single girls going out shopping. Of course, the bigger cities, like Vientiane and Luang Prabang, have bigger and better shopping malls. I’d suggest you try Vientiane Center Lao, ITECC Mall, and Talat Sao.
How to Approach Girls
Always be polite to Laotian ladies. They won’t offer their bodies to you if you treat them wrong or offer money right away for a hookup. No! Instead, walk up to a girl and compliment her on her looks or jewelry. Ask if she would give you her social media and keep chatting there.
Note: Most Laos girls might be too shy to speak due to their poor English skills. I advise you to learn a few words in Lao—this can win her over.
You might have guessed it by now, but Laos girls who want some fun won’t ask you to pay for it. That’s not the case with hookers. Whereas Laotian beauties make it harder to hook up, a hooker will give you a good sucking or jump your bones for approximately 410,000 LAK. I’d also suggest that you try to bargain for less—since they’re freelancers, you might get a good price if the girl likes you.
Live Cam Dating in Laos
If it’s your first time going to Laos, why not try live-camera dating? You can chat with Laotian girls and watch them provide visual pleasure while you stroke yourself to a blissful release. Here are two sites I’ve found to have the hottest models available 24/7:
This is by far the best live cam site I’ve used. Just open the webpage, pick your preferences, and select a room to join. Stripchat has everything you could ever want: young girls, Laotian women in a group, couple shows, throuples, etc.
LiveJasmin lets you choose from several categories without creating an account, including picking a room based on popular tags at that moment. The Laotian girls here are open to chatting and fulfilling all your desires, so remember to tip them well!
Top Things to Do in Laos Sex Tour
When in Laos, there are three things you must do to have the best sex vacation ever.
You can’t say you’ve been to Laos without visiting the main capital. As I’ve mentioned, the girls here are more liberal, so hooking up with them is easier. The most famous Laotian red-light districts are in this city, and there are bars where you can meet sexy Laos girls. Usually, the nightlife begins at around 9 p.m. and lasts well over 3 a.m.
Get A Girl From Dating Sites
Since sex between Laotian girls and expats is forbidden, you can try dating a lady and see where that takes you. But I’ve seen and read about guys who flunk in this endeavor when they’ve tried it in real life, which is why I advise starting with a dating site.
You can create an account on Asian Kisses or Asian Match Mate even before you go to Laos and chat up Laotian women. This way, when you get to the country. Let’s just say that getting laid just got 10x easier.
Visit Massage Parlors
They say a Thai massage is the best, but I found that Laotian massages are a close competitor. There are places where you can get a happy ending delivered by a skillful and young masseuse—you just have to find them. They’re clean and elegant, and to cater to all needs, some parlors will even offer the option between a guy and a girl masseuse.
How to Get There and Move Around in Laos
Now that you know what you can do and how to get laid in Laos, let’s see how you can get there.
Booking a flight to one of the two main airports—Vientiane Wattay Airport and Luang Prabang Airport—is a surefire way to get to Laos. There are also two other airports (Pakse Airport and Savannakhet Airport), but these are not used frequently.
For those working with a set budget, I suggest you use Kiwi.com. It has affordable prices and allows trips with famous airlines like Turkish Airlines.
Buses are a much better and cheaper option if you want to travel from one city to another. My choice is always 12Go Asia. It has routes inside the country but also makes international trips, like from Vientiane to Hanoi. With one click, you can find low-cost bus bookings.
When I traveled to Laos, I also checked out some rent-a-car deals. I found that Klook has the best cars for affordable prices (starting at around $25). You just need to book for how long you’ll use the car, where you’ll pick it up, and where you’ll leave it.
I found that Laos has a great railway stretching from Boten to Vientiane. Daily trains depart from the capital and Boten, stopping in all the major cities, including Vang Vieng, Luang Prabang, and Luang Namtha.
You can choose between a high-speed train and an ordinary train. Depending on your choice (including route and class), the prices vary, going around 48,000 LAK to 645,000 LAK. Unfortunately, you can’t book the tickets online, so you’ll have to do it at the ticket office at the railway station, 2–3 days before departing.
Regardless of what transportation method you choose, I highly advise you to get travel insurance. SafetyWing is the best and cheapest service I’ve seen for this, offering full travel and medical incident insurance.
Visa Process in Laos
Most people need a visa to enter Laos. Depending on where you’re coming from, you’d either be able to get a visa on arrival or online. To be completely on the safe side, I suggest you get some help from companies that deal with these services, such as iVisa. Using iVisa website is the easiest way to get a visa, as you only need to enter your country of residence. They will give you all the documents you need to prepare and help you in the process of getting a Laos visa.
Internet and Mobile Operators
Laos has four Internet and mobile providers. Choosing which one you use mainly depends on where you’re staying in the country since different companies cover different parts. The options are Lao Telecom, Unitel, ETL, and Beeline.
Although you can get a SIM card pretty easily—at the airport, convenience stores, or the provider’s stores—I suggest you first check the region the network covers on their official site. Also, keep in mind that the speed of the Internet won’t be something spectacular.
How to Stay Safe in Your Laos Sex Vacation?
Safety always comes first, even on your sex vacation to Laos. Here are some tips I can give you:
- Be as discreet as possible: You must remember: sex with Laos girls is forbidden by law. That’s why I advise you to double-check with your hotel and see if they let you bring in a woman for the night.
- Don’t forget your insurance: Use Misterprakan to get quick and cheap health insurance if you haven’t got one already. With just a few clicks, you can get a quote and purchase the insurance online.
- Stay on the main road: Don’t go down dark alleys because you might get robbed.
- Use protection: Although STDs are not common, it’s better to be safe than sorry.
As long as you follow these tips, you’re good to go. Laos might be conservative, but it is warming up to the idea of free sex. Laotian girls are interested in foreigners and want to roll between the sheets with you (as long as it’s discrete).
There is no point in thinking it over—pack your things and prepare to get laid in Laos!